Who's your Daddy?

[Cadaverous Pallor]

Originally Posted by tracilicious

Who's forcing anybody into relationships?

"Forced" as in "pressured by society". There are still plenty of people who think that the only way to live is heterosexually married and with 2.5 kids, and decry anyone who says otherwise (my father is one of them).

[€uroMeinke]

Originally Posted by Cadaverous Pallor

(my father is one of them).

But are you sure he's your father?

[tracilicious]

Originally Posted by Cadaverous Pallor

"Forced" as in "pressured by society". There are still plenty of people who think that the only way to live is heterosexually married and with 2.5 kids, and decry anyone who says otherwise (my father is one of them).

I diefinitely see the point, and I somewhat agree. I think that one's smaller societal group might pressure someone to commit when they don't want to, i.e. friends, neighbors, family, etc., but I think society as a larger entity is very noncommital. In fact, I'd say it's an opposite kind of pressure. Everything is about instant gratification, living for oneself, or for the moment, etc. I think society actually makes it more difficult to stay committed to a monogamous relationship, not less so.

Either way, a person should have the moral integrity to be honest with him or herself prior to commiting. If one doesn't want a monogamous relationship, than one shouldn't commit. I think the society excuse is sometimes too heavily relied upon.

[Not Afraid]

Originally Posted by tracilicious

In fact, I'd say it's an opposite kind of pressure. Everything is about instant gratification, living for oneself, or for the moment, etc. I think society actually makes it more difficult to stay committed to a monogamous relationship, not less so.

Either way, a person should have the moral integrity to be honest with him or herself prior to commiting. If one doesn't want a monogamous relationship, than one shouldn't commit. I think the society excuse is sometimes too heavily relied upon.

I completly agree with you. I have seen the desire for immediate gratification growing while the "disposability" of relationships has increased. Having gone through our own personal trials in marriage, I can say that having a committed, monogomous relationship can be incredibly challenging but also more rewarding than anything. It takes maturity to have that kind of commitment and respect the other person enough to remain monogomous. Not everyone can do it or understands and respects the grave consequences that enivetably happen wothout it.

[€uroMeinke]

Originally Posted by tracilicious

Either way, a person should have the moral integrity to be honest with him or herself prior to commiting. If one doesn't want a monogamous relationship, than one shouldn't commit. I think the society excuse is sometimes too heavily relied upon.

I think most people enter into a monogamous commitment with the full intention of remaning so, but time and life circumstances often intervene to make that more difficult than anyone ever realized in the first blooms of love. In other words, I don't think people enter these relationships dishonestly or without integrity, rather they do it perhaps with a bit of ignorance - how well do you really know yourself at 18?

So it doesn't surpise me the people will sometimes stray, and I understand the desire not to hurt spouse and family, by fessing up to something that ultimately may have little meaning to you in your life - which is one scenario.

From an objective stand point it seems clear that being honest is best (especially now since such indiscretions can be more easily detected and harder to cover up) but how it all happens depends on your relationship with your partner(s), whether you can talk through the difficult moments and support one another when times are bad.

[Mousey Girl]

As much as it pains me to say this, I am toooooo like my dad not to be his daughter. Plus, I am built just like his sister. As for my sister (older) I have decided that she was hatched by aliens and placed with the Old People.

[Brigitte]

Hey now, the mailman brought my sister.

This was a running family joke since she was brunette while the rest of us (including my dad as a child, though his hair is dark brown now - what's left of it) are/were blondes and my dad was a mail carrier at the time.

[AllyOops!]

I have to admit, I looked at the title of this Thread and thought, "Ooh! Kinky! Are we going to discuss role playing? Are we going to discuss those times you act like a little girl, and then you get turned over on your fella's knee because, well, you've been a bad girl? Sometimes a very bad girl and then, pre-spanking, you have to answer the question of "Who's your daddy?" before somehow the whole scenario segues into you being Little Red Riding Hood"?



Not that I'd know or anything. Okay, maybe a little. Maybe a lot. Maybe I'm a total pig.

Oink oink, my friends. Oink oink.

[MickeyLumbo]

Originally Posted by AllyOfTheDolls

I have to admit, I looked at the title of this Thread and thought, "Ooh! Kinky! Are we going to discuss role playing? Are we going to discuss those times you act like a little girl, and then you get turned over on your fella's knee because, well, you've been a bad girl? Sometimes a very bad girl and then, pre-spanking, you have to answer the question of "Who's your daddy?" before somehow the whole scenario segues into you being Little Red Riding Hood"?



Not that I'd know or anything. Okay, maybe a little. Maybe a lot. Maybe I'm a total pig.

Oink oink, my friends. Oink oink.

ok, that was a total turn on what is happening to me?

[SacTown Chronic]

Originally Posted by AllyOfTheDolls

[font=Georgia]I have to admit, I looked at the title of this Thread and thought, "Ooh! Kinky! Are we going to discuss role playing? Are we going to discuss those times you act like a little girl, and then you get turned over on your fella's knee because, well, you've been a bad girl? Sometimes a very bad girl and then, pre-spanking, you have to answer the question of "Who's your daddy?" before somehow the whole scenario segues into you being Little Red Riding Hood"?

Thanks, Ally. Anyone got a cigarette?