Societal norms, the Moral Majority and a rant that feels so good

[wendybeth]

I hereby judge you to be a very cool guy, Sac. Of course, I always did.

[SacTown Chronic]

6) I love to watch women's golf. My brothers are very concerned about this hobby of mine and they aren't shy about letting me know it.


Still think I'm cool, wb?

[wendybeth]

Even cooler. I had thought you were referring to men's golf prior.

[tracilicious]

Originally Posted by SacTown Chronic

1) Apparently some people are bothered that my wife is some sort of bisexual slut. But are they judging me or my wife; her bisexuality or the fact that she's married and actively bisexual?

And how many of you have read this thread and are now judging us by what you've learned?

Sac, come on. I'm sure we're all more surprised by the women's golf thing then the fact that you're married to an active bisexual. Do whatever you want in the bedroom, I hereby judge golf to be boring!

[€uroMeinke]

1) My Quietness in person - Must be bored, snobish, anti-social
2) My Job - How can anyone do something so boring?
3) My belief system (or lack thereof) - I'm going to hell, or am just a plain evil or at least ignorant person
4) My spending habits - irresponsible, frivilous
5) Disney - how often do yougo? Just what exactly do you do there?

Of course, some of the above judgements might be true

[wendybeth]

1). My occupation and haircolor- blonde hairdresser- stupid, much?

2). Only having one child. (Poor kid will grow up all alone, never mind that she has a zillion cousins).

3). I don't drive a mini-van or SUV. (In my neighborhood, you're a real rebel if you don't).

4). My politics, of late. Lots of nasty suppositions made about libs these days.

5). Homeschooling my kid.

[Where's Barbie?]

Originally Posted by €uroMeinke

1) My Quietness in person - Must be bored, snobish, anti-social
Of course, some of the above judgements might be true

You say it your very quiet in groups but how can you get a word in with big mouth NF or me around. We don't even take a breath when we talk

[Not Afraid]

Originally Posted by Where's Barbie?

You say it your very quiet in groups but how can you get a word in with big mouth NF or me around. We don't even take a breath when we talk

Yes, but if we DID breathe, he wouldn't shut up!

[€uroMeinke]

6) Remarrying my ex - lost at least one friend over that one, sure there were plenty silent eye rolls to go around as well.

[mistyisjafo]

Sac & Crystal,

I totally can understand where you are coming from! For 6 or so years I lived in "sin" with my boyfriend (now ex). I can not tell you how many times I had family, "friends" or even coworkers tell me how wrong I was and how my relationship was wrong or that living in sin was wrong. The crazy thing is that many people that I knew that told me that were - Divorced, Cheating, Not Married, Never Been In a Long Term Relationship, and Married & Divorced 3 or more times. So let me just say that SCREW what other people think. If they feel they are so much better than you than maybe they aren't your friends.

What I just can't believe is why they have to hurt the kids. If your kids are having fun and enjoy each others company, I don't see how your sex life would effect the kids! That's just childish and immature. It just saddens me.