CA Supreme Court to rule on Gay Marriage today (5/15) at 10:00am - Page 13

Chernabog · 05-29-2008, 04:51 PM

Well, get permission then!

Say "hey there are a couple of cute gays on this message board I post to that wondered if you were a top or a bottom."

I mean, I couldn't marry a bottom! (sorry, had to get it back on topic)

SzczerbiakManiac · 05-30-2008, 11:01 AM

I don't suppose I can get in on this action...

Gemini Cricket · 06-11-2008, 10:51 AM

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A study issued this week by UCLA's Williams Institute for Sexual Orientation and the Law projected that gay men and lesbians will spend $684 million on cakes, photographers and other services over the next three years unless voters reverse the high court's ruling in the fall.
The researchers found that about half of the state's more than 100,000 same-sex couples will get married during the next three years, and an additional 68,000 out-of-state couples will travel to California to exchange vows. The study estimated that over that period, gay weddings will generate $64 million in tax revenue for the state, $9 million in marriage-license fees for counties, and some 2,200 jobs.

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NirvanaMan · 06-11-2008, 11:00 AM

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And just think how much more revenue will be generated in divorces! It boggles the mind as to why anyone would oppose it, strictly from a practical perspective.

I on the other hand don't believe there should be state/federal recognition of the institution of marriage at all (Man/Woman included), but that is a whole other can of worms. If you are going to recognize this contract for what it is in the eyes of the law, a financial agreement between two parties, then how on earth could they ever discriminate and claim to hide behind the law, or worse, the will of the people. For one rare moment, I do applaud the CA Supreme Court and I did crack a smile upon hearing of their decision last month.

Gemini Cricket · 06-11-2008, 11:11 AM

I applaud the marriage ruling for the rights aspect. But without the Federal government getting on board, it's still kinda sh!tty.
I'm in the marriage camp for a couple of reasons.
I like the idea that someone says "That's it, you're the one and I'm going to let you and the world know." It puts my mind at ease somehow.
And I like the idea of a big celebration with all my fam and friends at a ceremony. I guess you could do it without the ceremony, but I've always wanted one for me. Not to mention the gifts...!

Yeah, the man of my dreams could just say that there's no one else, but a public display of commitment with gifts would be even better.

Ghoulish Delight · 06-11-2008, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemini Cricket

And I like the idea of a big celebration with all my fam and friends at a ceremony. I guess you could do it without the ceremony, but I've always wanted one for me. Not to mention the gifts...!

Yeah, the man of my dreams could just say that there's no one else, but a public display of commitment with gifts would be even better.

But what does that have to do with law? I'd much prefer that the government, at any level, had nothing to do with marriage between anyone. You shouldn't have to sign a paper and pay for a license to have a big party. But since it's far too intertwined in our culture to separate it out now, then it definitely should be open to anyone and everyone.

innerSpaceman · 06-11-2008, 10:54 AM

Hmmm, maybe I should stop looking for a gay marriage, and get into the gay marriage business.

I already perform ceremonies (though I can't charge for that), but maybe some kind of gay-marriage-centric event planning could bring into the fold many of the talents of various swankers ... and we could make a killing in a new field of economic opportunity stemming from the goodness of civil rights advances.

I love the potential.

Chernabog · 06-11-2008, 11:15 AM

Hey guys (and by guys I mean, iSm especially):

When I was at Pride on Sunday (marched with the attorneys, fun times), my friend Tom informed me of a group that he and some others have started re: the marriage vote, called "Love Honor Cherish" for the protection of marriage equality. They're starting up the website www.lovehonorcherish.org (its just a link to an email address for right now, they're working on it) ... AND THEY NEED VOLUNTEERS (unlike those other places that just want money).

He said they are doing meetings every Tuesday night on this (and they may also have Wednesday night meetings), all of which anyone here is welcome to attend. Should I start a new thread regarding this? If anyone wants to go to a meeting with me I'd be thrilled to do so.

innerSpaceman · 06-11-2008, 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Chernabog

I mean, iSm especially:

He said they are doing meetings every Tuesday night on this (and they may also have Wednesday night meetings), all of which anyone here is welcome to attend. Should I start a new thread regarding this? If anyone wants to go to a meeting with me I'd be thrilled to do so.

Yes, I'm interested. When's the first meeting? Where?

(I don't think we need a separate thread, but that's up to you.)

Chernabog · 06-11-2008, 02:32 PM

I heard back from Andrew (Tom's partner) and he's putting me on the email list. Please email that address above and he'll do the same for you

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Gemini Cricket ... Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 13,244	I applaud the marriage ruling for the rights aspect. But without the Federal government getting on board, it's still kinda sh!tty. I'm in the marriage camp for a couple of reasons. I like the idea that someone says "That's it, you're the one and I'm going to let you and the world know." It puts my mind at ease somehow. And I like the idea of a big celebration with all my fam and friends at a ceremony. I guess you could do it without the ceremony, but I've always wanted one for me. Not to mention the gifts...! Yeah, the man of my dreams could just say that there's no one else, but a public display of commitment with gifts would be even better.
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innerSpaceman Kink of Swank Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Inner Space Posts: 13,075	Hmmm, maybe I should stop looking for a gay marriage, and get into the gay marriage business. I already perform ceremonies (though I can't charge for that), but maybe some kind of gay-marriage-centric event planning could bring into the fold many of the talents of various swankers ... and we could make a killing in a new field of economic opportunity stemming from the goodness of civil rights advances. I love the potential.
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06-11-2008, 11:15 AM	#8
Chernabog Biophage Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: The Moon Posts: 2,679	Hey guys (and by guys I mean, iSm especially): When I was at Pride on Sunday (marched with the attorneys, fun times), my friend Tom informed me of a group that he and some others have started re: the marriage vote, called "Love Honor Cherish" for the protection of marriage equality. They're starting up the website www.lovehonorcherish.org (its just a link to an email address for right now, they're working on it) ... AND THEY NEED VOLUNTEERS (unlike those other places that just want money). He said they are doing meetings every Tuesday night on this (and they may also have Wednesday night meetings), all of which anyone here is welcome to attend. Should I start a new thread regarding this? If anyone wants to go to a meeting with me I'd be thrilled to do so. __________________ And they say back then our universe Was a coal black egg Until the god inside Burst out and from its shattered shell He made what became the world we know ~ Bjork (Cosmogony)
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06-11-2008, 02:32 PM	#10
Chernabog Biophage Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: The Moon Posts: 2,679	I heard back from Andrew (Tom's partner) and he's putting me on the email list. Please email that address above and he'll do the same for you __________________ And they say back then our universe Was a coal black egg Until the god inside Burst out and from its shattered shell He made what became the world we know ~ Bjork (Cosmogony)
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