Can we talk about porn?

[Kevy Baby]

Isn't foreplay the part where I beg and plead?

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Seriously, I like different kinds of porn. Sometimes the raw passion of the amateur stuff and sometimes the more stylized stuff you see in Andrew Blake films (if you have never seen it, "Hidden Obsessions" is a must see).

I want to go back and revisit "Behind the Green Door" some day and also check out "The Story of 'O' " (which I have never seen).

And put me as one of the many who really don't like big fake boobs. The so-called "porn boobs" are just rediculous.

No nudity, but NSFW:

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Also, when they do a bad job of dubbing the moans and groans. Which is why most porn is better with the sound off.

One other topic of porn that has not yet been brought up (at least that I can remember): the "money shot". Most women I've heard on this topic dislike this. It is nice to have a "finish line" but I am sort of undecided about whether I like or dislike.

Also, it seems like there is a broader acceptance of female-to-female contact than there is to male-to-male contact. Lesbian sex is perfectly acceptable in straight porn, but male-to-male contact is almost exclusively limited to "gay" porn

[lashbear]

Originally Posted by Kevy Baby

One other topic of porn that has not yet been brought up (at least that I can remember): the "money shot".

Oh, they very rarely film the actresses being paid by the producers.

[innerSpaceman]

I hate the money shot. It's just so unrealistic. In the effort to keep things visual, they make the sex exclusive-to-porn.

I had one lover who seems to have gotten his idea of sex from porn and would routinely perform the money-shot in real life. Otherwise, and I think mainly so in the real world, it's primarily an internal affair.



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[€uroMeinke]

There certainly is a difference between real sex and porn sex, the money shot being one. Also there are a number of positions you see couples engage in that honestly, aren't that comfortable and don't feel all that great. Likewise, any position that results in deep penetration or close physical contact will not give you a good gynacalogical close up and thus rarely appear in porn for any extended period of time in porn.

[Cadaverous Pallor]

Who says what is and isn't a part of "normal" sex?

If you want a money shot to be a part of your routine, you make it a part of your routine. I guess there's something to be said for convenience and clean up, but still, that's quite an interesting generalization there.

I'm not saying it's a part of my "routine", but I wouldn't be surprised if it was for other people.

[€uroMeinke]

Originally Posted by Cadaverous Pallor

Who says what is and isn't a part of "normal" sex?

I can't find anywhere above where someone is calling something "normal" - I'm certainly not trying to define that, just offereing that while what is depicted in porn may be emulated in real life, it is in no way some sort of anthropological study of what real sex is. I think there's way more to sex and eroticism than what has been captured and marketed in porn. We're far more creative and complex than that.

[RStar]

Originally Posted by €uroMeinke

I can't find anywhere above where someone is calling something "normal".

Sure, it's a setting on the washing machine!

[Not Afraid]

Going back to what types of women I like to see in porn......I don't care if they look like me, I just want to find them hot. My "type" of woman is lean but curvy, pale skin, dark hair and European. Think Dita VonTessen with a French accent. Now, if they filed porn in this way in the stores, I'd probably buy more of it.

I also LOVE written porn. Give me a good pornographic story, or well-written erotica over pictures any day. My own visual imagination is pornographic enough.

[RStar]

Lisa, you make me blush!

[Bornieo: Fully Loaded]

Originally Posted by RStar

Lisa, you make me blush!

Her "type" discriptions make me wanna get "Hurt at work."