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Mousey Girl · 05-23-2005, 06:34 PM

I have mentioned my Monkeys in the past. One of them, Blake, had his 9th B-day party yesterday. His older brother Trent was here Saturday, along with some of the other kids. They were all talking about the party, and receiving invitations. Nickolas said that he never got an invite. Trent told him he was invited, even if he didn't get anything on paper. Nickolas went over there yesterday around 1, the party was to start at 2. At 1:20 he was home, very upset. Blake had told him he was NOT invited and that he had to leave.

I am trying to stay out of this. I have intervened in the past when Blake was refusing to talk to Nickolas. No one seems to know why he told Nick he wasn't invited.

I am really fighting the urge to call his mom. In my opinion it is her poor parenting skills that have let up to this. At the same time I know nothing would be resolved, and Nick still missed the party, so I will remain silent.

Should I just let the boys work it out on their own? If Blake comes over do I tell him he can't come in? Do I let Nick tell him he can't come in? I just don't know what to do...

05-23-2005, 06:34 PM	#1
Mousey Girl Just Me Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: In The Flagon With The Dragon Posts: 2,437	Kid Question, Opinions Requested I have mentioned my Monkeys in the past. One of them, Blake, had his 9th B-day party yesterday. His older brother Trent was here Saturday, along with some of the other kids. They were all talking about the party, and receiving invitations. Nickolas said that he never got an invite. Trent told him he was invited, even if he didn't get anything on paper. Nickolas went over there yesterday around 1, the party was to start at 2. At 1:20 he was home, very upset. Blake had told him he was NOT invited and that he had to leave. I am trying to stay out of this. I have intervened in the past when Blake was refusing to talk to Nickolas. No one seems to know why he told Nick he wasn't invited. I am really fighting the urge to call his mom. In my opinion it is her poor parenting skills that have let up to this. At the same time I know nothing would be resolved, and Nick still missed the party, so I will remain silent. Should I just let the boys work it out on their own? If Blake comes over do I tell him he can't come in? Do I let Nick tell him he can't come in? I just don't know what to do...
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