Smarter Ladies Have Worse Sex

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People who read The Sun needn't concern themselves with this.

[Kevy Baby]

Originally Posted by Ponine

My initial thought was "duh"

OK, THAT was damned funny!

Unfortunately, I cannot mojo you for it Gotta go spread some lovin' around.




Where are the dumb chicks...

[Ponine]

Originally Posted by Kevy Baby

OK, THAT was damned funny!

Tell me that I am not the only one thats been known to make To-Do and Grocery lists during.
I cant possibly.

It's turning the list making OFF thats difficult.
Hell, this is a talent that I have perfected in my twenty years of experience.

[Disneyphile]

Originally Posted by Ponine

Tell me that I am not the only one thats been known to make To-Do and Grocery lists during.
I cant possibly.

Oh, this is so TMI, and my poor husband is going to kill me, but you're certainly not the only one, hon.

I've even come up with new project ideas.

[Morrigoon]

And I just thought guys were too impatient.

[Capt Jack]

Originally Posted by Morrigoon

And I just thought guys were too impatient.

not all.

some live for the anticipation as much as any other aspect

[Disneyphile]

That's because smart women know we want it to last longer than just a few seconds.

Damn. We've been found out.

[Kevy Baby]

Originally Posted by Disneyphile

That's because smart women know we want it to last longer than just a few seconds.

Over-sharing answer hidden in spoiler:

Spoiler:

If you want your guy to last longer, get them on an anti-depressant like Prozac or Celexa.

Spoiler:

"Delayed Ejaculation"?!? Delayed til when: my next lifetime?

[blueerica]

I always figure this is my one and only chance in a day to not make lists, since I do it all day long as it is. Hell, I make lists and am at work in my dreams. It blows. I seemed to have perfected the "turn brain off" function during sex.

[LSPoorEeyorick]

Very tactful! And it helps me understand where you're coming from. As, I think we've discussed this before, but we have very different experiences.

I am not really sure that I can think of anything OUTSIDE of the task at hand. I'm going to overshare, just for the sake of understanding and communication.

Spoiler:

For me, sex is all about give-and-take. Typically, a standard experience involves some of both, and some together. If I'm in the process of giving (in whatever way I'm giving, even if it's simply body touch) I'm usually thinking about what I will do next, how I will give him multi-sensory pleasure, how I will switch it up... because I want it to be as pleasurable as possible. If he is in the process of giving, I can hardly think at all because the sensations feel so good - but if I am thinking, it's typically about something erotic, or about whatever he's saying. And if we're both together, it's all about making eye contact, thinking about using my muscles, feeling intimacy...

Basically, I'm so caught inside of those in-the-moment actions and expressions that I just can't imagine what it would be like to be caught outside of them. So thank you for sharing your perspective - it helps me understand your experience better!