Mom freak out meltdown- - Page 2

innerSpaceman · 05-27-2009, 05:14 PM

Ok, this is important to you, obviously. So don't grant yourself the luxury of worry right now. Maintain as positive thoughts as possible. Do it methodically, purposefully. Don't let yourself slip (too often). It can only help ... if not her, than you.

It can't hurt. Will do some good on some level, maybe much good on important levels.

Hugs.

Nephythys · 05-27-2009, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by innerSpaceman

Ok, this is important to you, obviously. So don't grant yourself the luxury of worry right now. Maintain as positive thoughts as possible. Do it methodically, purposefully. Don't let yourself slip (too often). It can only help ... if not her, than you.

It can't hurt. Will do some good on some level, maybe much good on important levels.

Hugs.

Worry is not a luxury- it is a fairly instinctive response to this kind of news. Especially at first-

I am hoping it will turn out to be nothing-

-and Braden is my son- not a her.

But thanks for the effort-

katiesue · 05-27-2009, 06:17 PM

Think positive thoughts and stay calm until you know what's wrong. Also you freaking out isn't going to help him not worry. Not of couse that any of this is easy. I hope it turns out to be nothing.

~MS~ · 05-27-2009, 06:21 PM

Hang in there, breath in then out then repeat...I won't even try to tell you to not worry, BTDT have the doc bills to remind me often...but I will pray that they do the test and find out that it's a 'nothing' to worry about.

lashbear · 05-27-2009, 06:26 PM

LashPair vibes coming to you for a happy outcome.

Betty · 05-27-2009, 07:12 PM

Wishing you both strength and the best possible outcome. Please keep us posted!

innerSpaceman · 05-27-2009, 07:23 PM

oh, i didn't mean "luxury" to come off so cavalier. Worry is the absolute guaranteed human reaction. But since it can have bad effects (most especially if the worrier is the one with the potential health issue), what I meant by it is we don't have the luxury of normal human emotions.

When positive thinking can positively effect our health, or the health of a loved one ... I believe we should make a strident effort to banish normal fear and concentrate on positive thinking. That it takes an effort, especially at first, to combat the normal human reaction, is why I used the word "luxury." Sorry if that came out wrong.

Bornieo: Fully Loaded · 05-27-2009, 08:48 PM

Best thoughts Nephy!!!!

wolfy999 · 05-27-2009, 09:11 PM

Wolfpack is hoping all is well, but remember freaking out won't help Braden any at all. Stay calm during the storm...it will pass.

CoasterMatt · 05-27-2009, 09:37 PM

Best wishes Nephythys

05-27-2009, 05:14 PM	#1
innerSpaceman Kink of Swank Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Inner Space Posts: 13,075	Ok, this is important to you, obviously. So don't grant yourself the luxury of worry right now. Maintain as positive thoughts as possible. Do it methodically, purposefully. Don't let yourself slip (too often). It can only help ... if not her, than you. It can't hurt. Will do some good on some level, maybe much good on important levels. Hugs.
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katiesue Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: San Diego Posts: 4,678	Think positive thoughts and stay calm until you know what's wrong. Also you freaking out isn't going to help him not worry. Not of couse that any of this is easy. I hope it turns out to be nothing. __________________ My life is so exciting I can hardly stand it.
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~MS~ One Happy little Missy! Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 658	Hang in there, breath in then out then repeat...I won't even try to tell you to not worry, BTDT have the doc bills to remind me often...but I will pray that they do the test and find out that it's a 'nothing' to worry about. __________________ "Sometimes Miracles Hide"
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Betty Kicking up my heels! Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: The Silver State Posts: 3,783	Wishing you both strength and the best possible outcome. Please keep us posted! __________________ Nee Stell Thue
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05-27-2009, 07:23 PM	#7
innerSpaceman Kink of Swank Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Inner Space Posts: 13,075	oh, i didn't mean "luxury" to come off so cavalier. Worry is the absolute guaranteed human reaction. But since it can have bad effects (most especially if the worrier is the one with the potential health issue), what I meant by it is we don't have the luxury of normal human emotions. When positive thinking can positively effect our health, or the health of a loved one ... I believe we should make a strident effort to banish normal fear and concentrate on positive thinking. That it takes an effort, especially at first, to combat the normal human reaction, is why I used the word "luxury." Sorry if that came out wrong.
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Bornieo: Fully Loaded Lego Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Disneyland, USA Posts: 3,704	Best thoughts Nephy!!!!
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wolfy999 Eyes like Sapphires! Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: 2.4 miles from Disneyland Posts: 1,523	Wolfpack is hoping all is well, but remember freaking out won't help Braden any at all. Stay calm during the storm...it will pass. __________________ Diane "Honesty may be the best policy, but it's important to remember that apparently, by elimination, dishonesty is the second-best policy." - George Carlin 1937-2008 DISNEY IS FINALLY PAYING ME BACK......STILL OWES ME ABOUT (oh, wait....way too much)!
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CoasterMatt BRAAAAAAAINS! Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: One Step Beyond... Posts: 8,802	Best wishes Nephythys __________________ Do you like my photography? Visit photosbymatt.tumblr.com to purchase prints!
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