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Your manager says that children should SHUT UP!

Hmmm, there is the whole "God" thing; especially distasteful when you don't believe in God and your pledge to a nation "under God" is all but compulsory. And that whole pledging an oath of allegiance. We find oaths of allegiances and citizenship papers to be distasteful in many other nations and yet we don't recognize the distastefulness of our own "oath" because ours is not strictly compulsory. I will grant you that the Pledge is not required by our government but schools have often made it compulsory. And even in schools where it is not compulsory, peer pressure (and approval/disapproval from adults) is a strong force in compelling conformity.

I agree that a focus on service might be less distasteful (depending upon what is meant by service) than loyalty. Nonetheless, even the GS oath pledges service to God and country. The BS oath requires one to pledge to do their "duty towards God" and the YMCA oath requires you to state that you "pledge before God...." I would not be thrilled with any one of these being substituted as a national oath.

In any case, if dd decides at any point that she doesn't want to recite the Pledge, for whatever reason, I will support that. I would rather her respectfully protest a status quo with which she doesn't agree than to continue to engage in a recitation of an oath because peer pressure and her elders deem it a requirement.

Personally, "under God" aside, I remember the Pledge making me feel proud as a child...but that was also a time when I bought the fiction that we were a nation "chosen" by God and therefore morally superior to all other nations. As an adult, I could take it or leave it. I respectfully stand, but don't recite the Pledge. There's no big reason that I can pinpoint why I felt the need to stop (surely my refutation of the existence of God had something to do with it), but I do know that the stopping has never affected nor reflected my proudness (is that a word?) of or disappointment in our nation.

I pledge dedication to the ideals of the United States of America: Liberty, justice, and peace for all people.





It's just a first draft - what do you think?

:snap:

I pledge allegiance to the flag
Of the United States of America
And to the republic for which it stands
One nation, indivisible
With liberty and justice for all

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When we are truly indivisible and have liberty and justice for all (and not those who are straight, white and male)....

Should children be forced to stand and say the Pledge of Allegience?
 

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When I was a kid I always wondered why our nation was invisible.

Are you sure?

The whole breathing pattern changes if you leave out "under God." It's very uncomfortable. I don't know how people managed before it was put in.

Obviously, "under God" doesn't belong in the pledge or "God Save The Queen" or any of it. And "My Country 'Tis Of Thee" is full of pathetic fallacies because a country isn't a person and freedom can't ring.

If somebody wants to stand politely and not say some or all of the pledge, I'd have no problem with it. But if, say, I had a high school kid who wanted to make a big show of sitting down or turning his back during the pledge because America is, like, fascist, I would not beam with pride over that, except that it would give me an excuse to cut off all car contributions because Gandhi would walk.

Still, that is why we should have things like the pledge in school: to give kids to think about and overreact against so that they can eventually find their way towards the sacred, imaginary middle.