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Ok- here is my "plan"- thus far....
First a conversation with him to discuss:
-Risks
*pregnancy
*STD's
*Risks to her
-If he cares about her, as he says he does, he would not put her health and future at
risk by continuing with this behavior.
-Rules in the house
*Open/unlocked door policy- subject to surprise visits at any time
*Violations will lead to more restrictions
*There will be NO sex in my house
-If he wants to continue this he can move out at 18 and get on with his adult life
I am gathering information- her full name, hopefully some into on her parents (they live near mine)- and if the discussion with him yields poor results I will talk to her as well-then escalate to parents.
I am unprepared to go running to her parents immediately- but it is an option as well. One I need to prepare myself to take.
Something occurred to me that I missed last night when I was upset-I was taking my daughter to her grandparents to spend the night- and his GF lives near them but she would not allow me to take her home and they acted suspicious about it all. I suspect they did not want me to take her home because her parents may either not know where she is, or may not approve of my son for some reason- maybe this one- I don't know.
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