Lust trumps love when it comes to having sex

[Ponine]

Originally Posted by Ghoulish Delight

But those could all be boiled down to be viewed as forms of #2. Hell, even #1 is a subset of #2.

I suppose it depends how you want to view the sentance "get something out of it"

Because if you do it, someone else will be less stressed out,
or they will no longer be pissed at you for not 'putting out',
or Becuase they just want to?

esp the last one, what would I 'get out' of that?
I say nothing. You're there, they get thier rocks off, they leave you alone when they're done.
I think I am missing a piece of your thinking GD, please elaborate.