Lust trumps love when it comes to having sex

[innerSpaceman]

Everything we do is to affect the way we feel.

We don't do anything simply because it's "right," but rather because of the way doing what we consider "the right thing" makes us feel.

Same for everything else under the sun and moon. So Ghoulish Delight is completely correct ... everything can be reduced to that, once we start reductionism. Best not to start it at all, and deal with (in fact celebrate) the tiny differences that inform this world.