Jodie Foster Finally Comes Out!

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Originally Posted by innerSpaceman

But what is propriety anyway? Is it really a sincere concern for the feelings of others? Or is it fear by another name?

Depends. Could go either way. I don't say anything about me when around my husband's coworkers at his request. There is fear of job loss, but also it's his request that I not muddy the waters. He prefers calm, and if they knew who I was, they would not be calm. Maybe eventually but it'd be a sore spot.

I'm fine with people giving me heat; him, not so much.