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		 I'd like to be a girl so I could dress more fancifully and change my hairstyle a lot.  That would be fun.  I could do all that by pretending to be a girl. 
  
  
If, however, I'd like to be a girl for how much (usually) more compassionate, nurturing, empathetic, and generally enlightened they are as a gender ... not only is that something I cannot achieve via hormones, surgery, dress-up or self-delusion/intense belief - - it's something I could just as easily accomplish as a man and be no less man or more woman for the accomplishment. 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
	
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