Will We Know?

[Alex]

I don't care what is done with me and have told Lani as much. What happens after I die has nothing to do with me so the people who care should do whatever they think is best for them.

If nobody cares much then give my body so some entity that will use it, otherwise cremate and dispose. But if Lani would prefer to bury me then that's what she should do, if she'd prefer to leave my body unclaimed and I eventually end up in Potter's Field, then that is fine as well. I'll still be dead.

But assuming she outlives me, Lani is aware of where I post. If we were to die together it might be a while before someone confirmed we were dead but my employer would likely be the first to know. My emergency contact is one one of the MousePlanet people (because I didn't want to track down contact information for my mom) and there is just enough overlap between my various internet spheres that word would spread. But for the most part, if there isn't anybody in a community that would eventually care enough to find out then it probably also isn't all that important that I make sure they're notified.