Soooo....

[AllyOops!]

HANDS OFF, LUSTY BABES!!

I'm kidding, of course. However, BTD is correct. We'll take Captain Cragen. We do suffer from TOAS. (tasty older actor syndrome). I like 'em ancient, with practically one foot in the grave.

Okay, that's just wrong. And sick. And I'm playin'. I do like the older actors, however. Is anybody here watching Army Wives? Since American Idol ended, this is me & my Grandma's new "together time show". Yummy soldier meat on that show, gals.

[BarTopDancer]

Originally Posted by Mousey Girl

I just can't be attracted to most of the actors on the Law & Order series's. Most of them came from an HBO show, Oz, and I just can't get beyond seeing them in that sort of setting.

I never watched Oz. But I did see Christopher Meloni neekid from a scene in the show.

I am totally freakin' bored. Even when I get busy I still feel bored.

Look for the shiny. The shiny makes everything not boring.

I am also getting tired of being asked when I plan to start looking for a new man. Why do I need a man to be happy? My standard response is that I already have a man, he is in training, and he requires my full attention right now.

That's a great answer. Make sure he can remove spiders and other ikky bugs from the vicinity.

[BarTopDancer]

Mmmmmmmmmmm I<3 Kenny Chesney. You guys can keep the L&O guys. I'll take Kenny.

[Ponine]

Originally Posted by Prudence

Better not be Detective Logan, because I totally have dibs on him, too.

Totally.

You can have Logan. But, only if I can have Det Goren.

And Ally, you can have Cragen, but I want to visit occasionally. And by that I meant just visit. He seems like he would be a cool guy to talk to.

[AllyOops!]

Originally Posted by Mousey Girl

I am also getting tired of being asked when I plan to start looking for a new man. Why do I need a man to be happy? My standard response is that I already have a man, he is in training, and he requires my full attention right now.

Aww! {{{Hugs}}}}!! I can so relate to what you are feeling!!

Once upon a time, I was stuck, trapped, prisoner in what had to be the world's most mortifying relationship. What was the most awful part of it? In my case, or story, I chose to be prisoner. I will call him "Mr. Rock-Bottom" because that's exactly what he was for me. Also, I'm ironically kinda keepin' on the Law & Order detective theme, because Mr. Rock Bottom was a detective. Prudence can back me up- I leaned on her shoulder a whole bunch during that time & she shared a whole lot of wisdom with me to help me find my focus! Also, my best girlfriend had to spend hours trying to screw on my head straight & another one of my closest girlfriends was begging me leave him.

Mr. Rock Bottom manipulated & lied to me from the get-go, because he certainly couldn't operate on charm. I don't want to ever speak ill about anybody & I wish him nothing but the best, but...YIKES. EEK. I won't even begin to tell this story. It's just that awful. I can't believe I fell so far. However, it was he who made me realize that I needed to get my act together. I broke up with him, & I glued up my act.

I swore I would never, ever date again. When my girlfriends tried to "set me up", I would become so frustrated & upset! I was like, "I DON'T WANT TO DATE EVER AGAIN! Why do I need a man to make me feel complete?!?" I decided to remain single. For so long, I tried so hard to make my partners in relationships my "Mr. Right". I just..never could. I had a fear of commitment & I had a history of running away. Especially when it came to the "M" word (marriage).

When I rebuilt my life & started taking care of me & stopped the search, I met somebody. I was definitely not looking! Wouldn't you know that he was "the one"? I've never been so happy in all of my life.

Today's princess doesn't need a prince to rescue her! With lots of loving & supportive friends &/or family in her "kingdom", she'll do just fine! She'll also settle for nothing less then her prince charming, who does exist, believe me.

[Not Afraid]

Sometimes the only thing that makes me feel better when I'm in "the pit" is knowing just how much deeper I could go if I choose to. I may be overwhelmed at the moment, but I still have the option of being responsible.

[Gemini Cricket]

I want a man.
Boy howdy do I.




My new hours at work for the time being is 1pm to 9pm. I think I'll like it. I function better at night.

[AllyOops!]

I agree, NA. The fear of "deeper" keeps me in check. The "pit" seems to be bottomless, too. When I thought I had hit previous rock-bottoms, I truly hadn't. I had to plunge a whole lot further, and it sure ain't pretty. A fear of ever revisting made me ditch my unhealthy "passports" that were ensuring I'd return real soon.

[Moonliner]

Sorry, I just felt a strong need to bring some balance into this thread.

Please proceed....

[Capt Jack]

omg, you're my hero!

(not just hawt, but two of my all time faves...and really good pics to boot)