Lord God Angry Over Taxi Drivers Decision to Return Money

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Originally Posted by Alex

I realize I'm coming off as more severe than I intend. Trying to work on that.

I'm just honestly curious what would be considered the range of a reasonable amount.

The world isn't black or white, Alex. I'd say this is an incredibly subjective issue. Even if the facts were totally clear, you'll get a different answer for every person you ask. There are no rules. Just a gut feeling, based on your own values, which are based on your own experiences and what you were taught growing up.

Add to that the fact that we know very little about this specific case. Was the money just pocket change for the lady? Was it for some necessary surgery, scrounged out of her mattress? We don't know, and to me, these issues change how I personally feel she should reward the man.

If a neighbor helped you move your coffee table into a flat bed truck, would you give him something to show your gratitude? Would you give him a glass of lemonade, or bake him a pie, or drop a thank you note in his mailbox? Or maybe a handshake would suffice? Perhaps, instead, you'd "owe him one", and when he wants help with moving his daughter to college, you'd do a little extra work for the cause? What are the rules, what is the answer?

Personally, in the specific case of the cabbie - if the money is somewhat disposable, I'd reward the guy at least a grand. Don't ask me any further justification - that's just how I feel.