The One That Got Away?

[Cadaverous Pallor]

Originally Posted by €uroMeinke

Heh, the challenge really is when you find yourself in a relationship, or are otherwise already in "love," what you do when you fall for someone else?

Ah, that is a big question. Never had to really run up against that. Through the years with Greg I have definitely had my share of crushes, or attractions, or whathaveyou. My head has been turned by wonderful guys with intriguing minds and attractive looks - especially those that are very unlike my husband. But it was never enough for me to ever think of leaving Greg. No one has ever really come close to that. It's laughable for me. Life, without him? Impossible.

I'm glad I've never really come up against that. It's a horrifying prospect. But it's a chicken and egg question. Have I never had that because I really am that solid and loyal to Greg, that NO ONE could ever be a better choice? Or is it because I haven't met anyone that could really compete? I shudder to think about the latter concept. But I have faith that the answer is more in the range of the former.