Childhood Sexuality

alphabassettgrrl · 03-23-2005, 08:10 PM

Oh, yeah, and attend a dance recital or three. It gets better. Little girls wiggling their hips at Daddy and flashing their panties because the skirts are short. Strippers in training.

I agree (just as fascinatedly) that we do have a large schizoid split here. Personally, I was an asexual child. I don't remember ever being drawn to anything remotely sexual- not pictures, not wanting to see other kids naked, nothing. I started to think there was something wrong with me. I thought, puberty will fix that, get the hormones moving.

No. Try again. Well, I learned one dynamic that needed to change- but even as a child I didn't go after little girls.

€uroMeinke · 03-23-2005, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by alphabassettgrrl

No. Try again. Well, I learned one dynamic that needed to change- but even as a child I didn't go after little girls.

Heh, and almost all of my childhood sexual experiences were homosexual.

alphabassettgrrl · 03-23-2005, 08:15 PM

Really? Is that usual?

€uroMeinke · 03-23-2005, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by alphabassettgrrl

Really? Is that usual?

I suspect it is, at least for boys - but who will allow a study to find out the real answer

Ponine · 03-23-2005, 08:33 PM

hmmm... see and I have tried very hard to figure out how to raise a boy that wont, forgive me for outing his father here, grow up to be a sexual predator style man, yet be accepting.

Most of my son's male role models happen to be homosexual men. Personally, I dont have issues with this.
I have more than once explained that the couples were share our lives with love each other, and they made a choice to share thier lives and home with another man, and not a woman.

I am finiky about the films and TV he watches. I dont as a rule take him to pg-13 films, and pg's rarely.
But when he sees his dad, he watches all sorts of things. Battlestar Gallactica for example. Anyone SEEN that? I mean great.. but... WOW.. thats some steam.
Why does he need to know that at SIX?!?!?

Daddy never learned, even now at 32, has not learned that no means no. And Stop means stop. Have you tried to teach that to a child? Its tough.
The child knows darm well that we're built differently, and that I have different pieces than he does, and how babies are created.

But to my dismay, he's fully aware of the mechanics of a blow job!
I dont envy my fellow parents with young girls.
I took my niece shopping for school clothes this year, and couldnt find a way not to dress her like a tramp!

She wanted to pick up boys in the mall... at 9! Becuase her friends all had boyfriends and you arent cool if you dont.
Now what is with that?? I took my sister to planned parenthood at 16.. how young will I have to take my niece?

I said in another thread I was ill and shouldnt post... I rambled. Sorry.

03-23-2005, 08:10 PM	#1
alphabassettgrrl Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 4,978	Oh, yeah, and attend a dance recital or three. It gets better. Little girls wiggling their hips at Daddy and flashing their panties because the skirts are short. Strippers in training. I agree (just as fascinatedly) that we do have a large schizoid split here. Personally, I was an asexual child. I don't remember ever being drawn to anything remotely sexual- not pictures, not wanting to see other kids naked, nothing. I started to think there was something wrong with me. I thought, puberty will fix that, get the hormones moving. No. Try again. Well, I learned one dynamic that needed to change- but even as a child I didn't go after little girls.
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alphabassettgrrl Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 4,978	Really? Is that usual?
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Ponine Virgin Ears Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,075	hmmm... see and I have tried very hard to figure out how to raise a boy that wont, forgive me for outing his father here, grow up to be a sexual predator style man, yet be accepting. Most of my son's male role models happen to be homosexual men. Personally, I dont have issues with this. I have more than once explained that the couples were share our lives with love each other, and they made a choice to share thier lives and home with another man, and not a woman. I am finiky about the films and TV he watches. I dont as a rule take him to pg-13 films, and pg's rarely. But when he sees his dad, he watches all sorts of things. Battlestar Gallactica for example. Anyone SEEN that? I mean great.. but... WOW.. thats some steam. Why does he need to know that at SIX?!?!? Daddy never learned, even now at 32, has not learned that no means no. And Stop means stop. Have you tried to teach that to a child? Its tough. The child knows darm well that we're built differently, and that I have different pieces than he does, and how babies are created. But to my dismay, he's fully aware of the mechanics of a blow job! I dont envy my fellow parents with young girls. I took my niece shopping for school clothes this year, and couldnt find a way not to dress her like a tramp! She wanted to pick up boys in the mall... at 9! Becuase her friends all had boyfriends and you arent cool if you dont. Now what is with that?? I took my sister to planned parenthood at 16.. how young will I have to take my niece? I said in another thread I was ill and shouldnt post... I rambled. Sorry. __________________ There's something strange, There's something wrong. I see a change - It's like when love dies.
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