Question for gay men

[Alex]

I find many Brits attractive (thanks to the keen 70s Robin Hood. A fox indeed.) I had a long history of finding gay men attractive (due, in part, to my first crush and childhood imaginary friend, Richard Simmons)

I find this interesting. So if you don't know a person is British or gay, do they suddenly become more attractive once you learn?

I notice that of all of the "attractive" indicators you give none of them really have anything to do with appearance (or don't have reliable appearance elements).

This is something I talk about all the time with Lani. I have two very different sets of "attractive" criteria. If I'm just looking at a stranger from across the room then it is all about shallow physical characteristics. I like tall, Asian, red head, breasts a bit on the large side, mature looking, etc. That is most pleasing to just look at (obviously, not common to find in a single package).

And those criteria have almost nothing to do with being a person I'd want to date, marry, hang out with, etc.