Crush on the wrong person?

mistyisjafo · 10-16-2005, 06:02 PM

Sorry to hear that Boingonut. I wouldn't worry too much tho. Just think that if she wants to hang out with you she'd make the effort. If not then there's the answer. Don't be sad, there will be others!

Boingonut · 10-16-2005, 07:37 PM

At this point I am going to gauge things on how she acts when I see her next. If everything is cool then I might still try to ask her to the show, I wanted to do it in person on Thursday in person anyway but things got messed up. Until then I will give her the benefit of the doubt in regards to calling me back, she could be out of town, might not have checked her messages or any other number of things. I really hate talking on the phone anyway, I guess I got dumped one to many times in high school over the phone so now I just kind of hate the things. I would much rather talk to people in person.

I am really not feeling to bumed right now, I have been through much worse. That sinking feeling is never plesent but it is something I am sure all of us have felt and got used to even. If anything this whole thing has made me want to get out there even more and meet and date new people. So I guess you could say that I am trying to look at the good things that can happen from this and not the bad.

I know one thing, I had to try and if I didn't I would feel much worse right now. And I may still try, but I think I am going to try to put my feelings for this young lady on the back burner for now. I don't think I have burned any bridges with her so there is still hope and ther is still our friendship.

Thanks to everyone who responded to this tread, I debated with myself about making this whole thing public. I am glad I did though because I think I got some really good advice from the experts here!

Thanks everyone!

wendybeth · 10-16-2005, 07:41 PM

What a great attitude, Boingonut!

If it will be, it will be, and if it won't no harm in trying. It's not like you made a pass at her, so it shouldn't be awkward- you simply wanted to ask her to a concert. Even if she isn't romantically interested, she should be flattered.

10-16-2005, 06:02 PM	#1
mistyisjafo A JAFO Production Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Orange, CA Posts: 567	Sorry to hear that Boingonut. I wouldn't worry too much tho. Just think that if she wants to hang out with you she'd make the effort. If not then there's the answer. Don't be sad, there will be others! __________________
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10-16-2005, 07:37 PM	#2
Boingonut Anyone seen my Bike? Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Valencia, CA Posts: 100	At this point I am going to gauge things on how she acts when I see her next. If everything is cool then I might still try to ask her to the show, I wanted to do it in person on Thursday in person anyway but things got messed up. Until then I will give her the benefit of the doubt in regards to calling me back, she could be out of town, might not have checked her messages or any other number of things. I really hate talking on the phone anyway, I guess I got dumped one to many times in high school over the phone so now I just kind of hate the things. I would much rather talk to people in person. I am really not feeling to bumed right now, I have been through much worse. That sinking feeling is never plesent but it is something I am sure all of us have felt and got used to even. If anything this whole thing has made me want to get out there even more and meet and date new people. So I guess you could say that I am trying to look at the good things that can happen from this and not the bad. I know one thing, I had to try and if I didn't I would feel much worse right now. And I may still try, but I think I am going to try to put my feelings for this young lady on the back burner for now. I don't think I have burned any bridges with her so there is still hope and ther is still our friendship. Thanks to everyone who responded to this tread, I debated with myself about making this whole thing public. I am glad I did though because I think I got some really good advice from the experts here! Thanks everyone!
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10-16-2005, 07:41 PM	#3
wendybeth Nevermind Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 7,847	What a great attitude, Boingonut! If it will be, it will be, and if it won't no harm in trying. It's not like you made a pass at her, so it shouldn't be awkward- you simply wanted to ask her to a concert. Even if she isn't romantically interested, she should be flattered. __________________
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