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blueerica · 02-15-2008, 05:29 PM

Bleh -

Jazzman - so sorry to hear that for your co-workers and for yourself, even if you don't feel as affected.

Kevy - I'm with GC above.

GusGus - ditto the above.

BarTopDancer · 02-15-2008, 05:41 PM

What Erica said.

lizziebith · 02-15-2008, 05:47 PM

My VD was quiet until the ex started flexing custody-muscle* telling me I couldn't take the kid to visit my dying Dad. Oh, but he can miss school when YOU take him to Disneyland? People who think my ex is a saint abound (it's his carefully-crafted veneer) but there's a REASON we're divorced. Oh, yeah, he ruined the day, which was the point...

I will take him to COURT if I need to, stupid control freak. My Dad deserves to see his only grand-kid one last time, even if it means missing two lousy days of school.

Oh, and I've been hearing reports from the kid that whenever he misbehaves the new threat is always "you won't get to visit Mom." I LOVED his response: "isn't that illegal?" Smart boy!

Anyway, back to VD. Hope GG is okay...and hugs to everyone else that got strife along with the flowers and chocolate (or instead of).

* on the custody issue: I made a mistake. Rather than have a horrible fight, again, I caved. Believe me, I've been paying the price for that ever since. Non-custodial moms are viewed as pond-scum (abandoners, selfish, barely-even-human females), and "single-parent" dads don't have turds that have any odour. This I know NOW. But besides what it did for our respective social standings, what upsets me is the terrible stuff that he's put into the kid's head. For that, I will suffer forever.

Moonliner · 02-15-2008, 05:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kevy Baby

How's this:

Susan got a call yesterday from her doctor, the day after her mammogram (whenever they call the day after a mammogram, it is not a good thing), with the news that they found a cyst on one side and a calcium buildup on the other. They are getting approval from the insurance company to do the biopsy which she will be going in for as soon as the approval comes in.

She's it is nothing to worry about yet, but I am freaking out.

Hang in there you two. Remember the overwhelming percentage of cysts are benign. The waiting should be the hardest part of this...

Jazzman · 02-15-2008, 05:59 PM

Oh damn Kevy, you win. I'm so sorry. I'm sure it will all turn out fine and be nothing bad but I'm sorry you have to have the stress in the meantime. If this happened to us I know I'd be crawling up the walls. Good luck. I'll send out positive waves to you guys.

Kevy Baby · 02-15-2008, 06:03 PM

Intellectually, I know it is not going to be a problem. I always stress the worst at the unknown point. Once I know (even if it is worst case), then I can deal with reality.

What a strange thread to have brought this up in!

Not Afraid · 02-15-2008, 06:56 PM

The calcium deposit is probably something more to watch for in the future than a cyst. Either way, this is why women have mamograms. They usually catch something (if there is anything) early on and it gets delt with before it becomes a bigger issue. Early detection is key. Remember, I'm still around to grace you all with my presence.

Please call me, either one of you, if you want to talk.

RStar · 02-15-2008, 07:08 PM

I'm having a hard time reading these posts with VD in them without thinking of this:

VD

Sorry.

I had a pretty good VD *snicker* last night. I made a great dinner, and our daughter joined us. My better half loved the locket I gave her.

BDBopper · 02-15-2008, 08:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ghoulish Delight

Problem solved.

THANK YOU!!!

BDBopper · 02-15-2008, 08:39 PM

GusGus...my parayers and thoughts are with you. Sending good vibes your way!

02-15-2008, 05:29 PM	#121
blueerica Nueve Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 6,497	Bleh - Jazzman - so sorry to hear that for your co-workers and for yourself, even if you don't feel as affected. Kevy - I'm with GC above. GusGus - ditto the above. __________________ Tomorrow is the day for you and me
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02-15-2008, 05:41 PM	#122
BarTopDancer Prepping... Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Here, there, everywhere Posts: 11,405	What Erica said. __________________ Spork is the new MacGyver Postcards From My Edge
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02-15-2008, 05:47 PM	#123
lizziebith Wishing these titles could be longe Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Pearblossom CA Posts: 984	My VD was quiet until the ex started flexing custody-muscle* telling me I couldn't take the kid to visit my dying Dad. Oh, but he can miss school when YOU take him to Disneyland? People who think my ex is a saint abound (it's his carefully-crafted veneer) but there's a REASON we're divorced. Oh, yeah, he ruined the day, which was the point... I will take him to COURT if I need to, stupid control freak. My Dad deserves to see his only grand-kid one last time, even if it means missing two lousy days of school. Oh, and I've been hearing reports from the kid that whenever he misbehaves the new threat is always "you won't get to visit Mom." I LOVED his response: "isn't that illegal?" Smart boy! Anyway, back to VD. Hope GG is okay...and hugs to everyone else that got strife along with the flowers and chocolate (or instead of). * on the custody issue: I made a mistake. Rather than have a horrible fight, again, I caved. Believe me, I've been paying the price for that ever since. Non-custodial moms are viewed as pond-scum (abandoners, selfish, barely-even-human females), and "single-parent" dads don't have turds that have any odour. This I know NOW. But besides what it did for our respective social standings, what upsets me is the terrible stuff that he's put into the kid's head. For that, I will suffer forever. __________________ $ DO \|\| !$ DO ; TRY TRY: COMMAND NOT FOUND
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02-15-2008, 05:59 PM	#125
Jazzman Sax God Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Portland's Tijuana Posts: 510	Oh damn Kevy, you win. I'm so sorry. I'm sure it will all turn out fine and be nothing bad but I'm sorry you have to have the stress in the meantime. If this happened to us I know I'd be crawling up the walls. Good luck. I'll send out positive waves to you guys.
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02-15-2008, 06:03 PM	#126
Kevy Baby Chowder Head Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Yes Posts: 18,500	Intellectually, I know it is not going to be a problem. I always stress the worst at the unknown point. Once I know (even if it is worst case), then I can deal with reality. What a strange thread to have brought this up in! __________________ The thing about quotes on the internet is that you cannot verify their validity. - Abraham Lincoln
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02-15-2008, 06:56 PM	#127
Not Afraid HI! Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 17,108	The calcium deposit is probably something more to watch for in the future than a cyst. Either way, this is why women have mamograms. They usually catch something (if there is anything) early on and it gets delt with before it becomes a bigger issue. Early detection is key. Remember, I'm still around to grace you all with my presence. Please call me, either one of you, if you want to talk.
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02-15-2008, 07:08 PM	#128
RStar Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Me & Manyard hangin out! Posts: 5,433	I'm having a hard time reading these posts with VD in them without thinking of this: VD Sorry. I had a pretty good VD snicker last night. I made a great dinner, and our daughter joined us. My better half loved the locket I gave her. __________________ Meddle not in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and good with ketchup! www.StarTownGifts.com
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02-15-2008, 08:39 PM	#130
BDBopper Not Taking Any Crap! Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Cleaning Up America, One Step At A Time! Posts: 1,694	GusGus...my parayers and thoughts are with you. Sending good vibes your way!
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