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					Originally Posted by  Kevy Baby
					 
				 
				I often wished I understood the proper usage of "whom" - it is one that I seem to not be able to properly grasp. 
			
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 That's ok, the OED has acknowledged that whom has disappeared from spoken English.
But if you remember to use it when following a preposition ("to whom shall I deliver the letter", "before whom must I bow", "upon whom did the porn star ejaculate copiously") then you'll understand it better than 95% of the population.