Spelling Errors: Stupid? Lazy? Or A-OK?

[Alex]

Originally Posted by Kevy Baby

I often wished I understood the proper usage of "whom" - it is one that I seem to not be able to properly grasp.

That's ok, the OED has acknowledged that whom has disappeared from spoken English.

But if you remember to use it when following a preposition ("to whom shall I deliver the letter", "before whom must I bow", "upon whom did the porn star ejaculate copiously") then you'll understand it better than 95% of the population.