Back home? Or back from home?

[Deebs]

Originally Posted by katiesue

San Diego isn't my home. I've never felt at home here. I don't like it here. But unfortunately I can't move.

^This describes my situation, but substitute Stockton for San Diego. I hate it here; I married into it and am trying to divorce out of it. Not so simple.

I wouldn't rush into anything.

Sounds like there are enough voices of caution here to keep that from happening, but I agree.

Originally Posted by Chernabog

Again, I don't want to psychoanalyze GC over the 'net, but that was my experience....

Well, yeah, there is that.

Just a little friendly psychoanalysis...
I'm trying not to jump in with too much, because I haven't spent much time with you, other than talking about our dogs and Boston. And a little bit of movie talk.

I can feel the kindness with which this is all meant, and I haven't been around here long. You're really well loved here, which will follow you to HI if you decide to go, of course.

just food for thought if he thinks it applies to his situation!!!

Exactly.

[Kevy Baby]

Originally Posted by Deebs

^This describes my situation, but substitute Stockton for San Diego. I hate it here; I married into it and am trying to divorce out of it. Not so simple.

It sounds like katiesue got the better deal. Or at least the lesser of two evils.

[Deebs]

Originally Posted by Kevy Baby

It sounds like katiesue got the better deal. Or at least the lesser of two evils.

Shhyeah.

[katiesue]

Originally Posted by Kevy Baby

It sounds like katiesue got the better deal. Or at least the lesser of two evils.

I'd take Stockton myself but only because I'd be in at least driving distance from home.

[Deebs]

Originally Posted by katiesue

I'd take Stockton myself but only because I'd be in at least driving distance from home.

Ah, this is true.

I feel outnumbered here. Stockton is my ex's home and he has his whole family around. I have a small family to begin with, and it got smaller last year when my dad died.

I don't pretend that my life would be magically wonderful and perfect if only I could get out of here. But I do think it would be less sucky. And I want to be near the DL and my favorite person.

[Disneyphile]

Originally Posted by Deebs

I don't pretend that my life would be magically wonderful and perfect if only I could get out of here.

And that's why moving wouldn't be a bad thing for ya - you've already addressed the real issues.