Lust trumps love when it comes to having sex

[AllyOops!]

Ooh! Where's the list?

Despite my ribald comments and raunchy posts, the walk is a bit different then the talk for this girl. Raised very Catholic, love trumps lust for me. I can't bear all of the guilt associtated with pure lust! The "I'm going to hell" feeling that would follow just crushes me. Especially since I recently experienced a rocky last couple of years where my choice making was at its all time lowest and poorest. Total commitment phobia and no clue what or where I was going. I'm glad that awful time is long over!

Having said that, I'm completely devoted, committed, loyal and in love with my boyfriend. He inspires me and is the catalyst for all of the wonderful changes in my life that I never dreamt possible. When I grow up I'm so going to marry him. And because of that mutual love & respect? We can have lots and lots of "I'm going to wear my old highschool plaid skirt and wear those 5 inch black stillettos and break out the silk scarves and flavored oils because I might be a good girl but I'm your whore" kind of loving.

Damn, I'm still going to hell because I'm not married. It's like I just can't win with the Vatican.

[Kevy Baby]

Originally Posted by AllyOops!

Ooh! Where's the list?

Oops. Forgot the link, so here it is.

And here are the lists:

Top reasons for having sex

The top and bottom reasons for having sex from a list of 237 that college-aged men and women gave University of Texas researchers:
Men's top 10 reasons:
1. I was attracted to the person.
2. It feels good.
3. I wanted to experience physical pleasure.
4. It’s fun.
5. I wanted to show my affection to the person.
6. I was sexually aroused and wanted the release.
7. I was “horny.”
8. I wanted to express my love for the person.
9. I wanted to achieve an orgasm.
10. I wanted to please my partner.


Women's top 10 reasons:
1. I was attracted to the person.
2. I wanted to experience physical pleasure.
3. It feels good.
4. I wanted to show my affection to the person.
5. I wanted to express my love for the person.
6. I was sexually aroused and wanted the release.
7. I was “horny.”
8. It’s fun.
9. I realized I was in love.
10. I was “in the heat of the moment.”


Men's bottom 5 reasons:
1. The person offered to give me drugs for doing it.
2. I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease.
3. I wanted to punish myself.
4. I wanted to break up my relationship.
5. I wanted to get a job.


Women's bottom 5 reasons:
1. I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease.
2. Someone offered me money to do it.
3. I wanted to get a raise.
4. It was an initiation rite to a club or organization.
5. I wanted to get a job.

Source: The Associated Press