I'm gonna spend some time away from this board...

CoasterMatt · 01-30-2008, 07:41 PM

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Kevy Baby · 01-30-2008, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by CoasterMatt

Send in the clowns, too

You and I are already here.

madmonkeygirl · 01-31-2008, 12:13 AM

It's not cuz i can't make the meets...it's from one person who "attacked me via privately". Sorry but i can't defend myself and fight anymore. I've done that all my life and i'm burned out. I just wanted a place to be safe and loved and to be able to post on here up til today i never thought i would have to defend myself always thought this was a fun place..debate and express opinions...

GC if Jon Bon Jovi asked me to stay i would stay.

Cindy you make a good point and it's not cuz of that. Yeah i do feel bad sometimes not being able to make a meet up or swanky but that's life.

I've been told not to post that i can't make this event or that event that it is getting old my excuses so...i won't....

I think i'm getting sick...so i need to go to bed now...achy headache i really hope not i don't want or need to be sick in any way or fashion...

wendybeth · 01-31-2008, 01:34 AM

Well, even if I lived in SoCal, I certainly wouldn't be able to (and wouldn't be expected) to make all the meets, trips and whatnot. Everyone on here has 'a life' and the get-togethers are to be fit in when and if it's feasible. I wish I could see all of you more, but I can't due to the distance. You're closer geographically so you might feel the pressure to join up more, but it's not expected and I'm sure no one wants to make you feel like you have to show at each and every event. I dunno- I think the fact that people want to see you is a good thing, but maybe I'm missing out on something here. I hope you can work this out and stay with us, but in the end it's all up to you. I also hope you feel better- I've been sick for nearly six weeks, and it's getting very old.

Nephythys · 01-31-2008, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by madmonkeygirl

It's not cuz i can't make the meets...it's from one person who "attacked me via privately". Sorry but i can't defend myself and fight anymore. I've done that all my life and i'm burned out. I just wanted a place to be safe and loved and to be able to post on here up til today i never thought i would have to defend myself always thought this was a fun place..debate and express opinions...

Then that idiot deserves to be on ignore (and I don't care who it is-attacks in PM or otherwise are stupid and hurtful)- but leaving the rest of us due to an idiot?

Bogus- take a break but don't let them win!

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I've been told not to post that i can't make this event or that event that it is getting old my excuses so...i won't....

Who the hell on this forum thinks they have the right to tell you what to post or what not to post?

That makes me sick too- in a pissed off way.

Disneyphile · 01-31-2008, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Nephythys

Who the hell on this forum thinks they have the right to tell you what to post or what not to post?

My attitude has been if you don't like what I post, please skip over it.

madmonkeygirl · 01-31-2008, 10:44 AM

The person who has PM'd me and told me those things aren't a Moderator of this board so. Just a regular person on here...what you're saying on page 4 makes total sense. I don't want them to win.

People really need to think before they write. Yes we all have opinions, beliefs etc. This board is a place to express them and yourselves. But when one personally "attacks" someone in writing on here in private even it makes me stop and wonder "am i free to express myself anymore?"

Everyone has a right to respond to posts everyone without being mean and rude and hurtful. I did have not gotten an apology and no they weren't joking in my eyes...sorry but the way i see it was just plain outright mean and i did take it personally and was very upset.

It's not about making meets etc. It's about being able to post on this board and not have someone attack someone else. Enough said...They know who they are...

I did put them on ignore yesterday. Took them off last night...

yes i woke up with a little start of a head cold...oh no...i really don't wanna be sick with this thing. My mom and sister were i was around my mom at her worst during her sickness and my coworker is finally well and now...at least one more day of work then two days off to run errands even though i don't feel like it...

madmonkeygirl · 01-31-2008, 01:20 PM

Kevy i started a new thread but you are so right. It is the person not me. Obviously. I really appreciate everyone being so nice and supportive of me. I did nothing wrong. I know that now. And i will continue to post my beliefs feelings opinions etc. If they have a problem with that too freakin bad.

madmonkeygirl · 01-31-2008, 01:40 PM

Exactly just because i might disagree with someone or get tired of someone's posts i do NOT go and PM them and make them feel bad. I just skim skip over their post....

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01-31-2008, 12:13 AM	#3
madmonkeygirl Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 764	I'm gonna spend some time away from this board... It's not cuz i can't make the meets...it's from one person who "attacked me via privately". Sorry but i can't defend myself and fight anymore. I've done that all my life and i'm burned out. I just wanted a place to be safe and loved and to be able to post on here up til today i never thought i would have to defend myself always thought this was a fun place..debate and express opinions... GC if Jon Bon Jovi asked me to stay i would stay. Cindy you make a good point and it's not cuz of that. Yeah i do feel bad sometimes not being able to make a meet up or swanky but that's life. I've been told not to post that i can't make this event or that event that it is getting old my excuses so...i won't.... I think i'm getting sick...so i need to go to bed now...achy headache i really hope not i don't want or need to be sick in any way or fashion...
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01-31-2008, 01:34 AM	#4
wendybeth Nevermind Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 7,847	Well, even if I lived in SoCal, I certainly wouldn't be able to (and wouldn't be expected) to make all the meets, trips and whatnot. Everyone on here has 'a life' and the get-togethers are to be fit in when and if it's feasible. I wish I could see all of you more, but I can't due to the distance. You're closer geographically so you might feel the pressure to join up more, but it's not expected and I'm sure no one wants to make you feel like you have to show at each and every event. I dunno- I think the fact that people want to see you is a good thing, but maybe I'm missing out on something here. I hope you can work this out and stay with us, but in the end it's all up to you. I also hope you feel better- I've been sick for nearly six weeks, and it's getting very old. __________________
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01-31-2008, 10:44 AM	#7
madmonkeygirl Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 764	I'm gonna spend some time away from this board... The person who has PM'd me and told me those things aren't a Moderator of this board so. Just a regular person on here...what you're saying on page 4 makes total sense. I don't want them to win. People really need to think before they write. Yes we all have opinions, beliefs etc. This board is a place to express them and yourselves. But when one personally "attacks" someone in writing on here in private even it makes me stop and wonder "am i free to express myself anymore?" Everyone has a right to respond to posts everyone without being mean and rude and hurtful. I did have not gotten an apology and no they weren't joking in my eyes...sorry but the way i see it was just plain outright mean and i did take it personally and was very upset. It's not about making meets etc. It's about being able to post on this board and not have someone attack someone else. Enough said...They know who they are... I did put them on ignore yesterday. Took them off last night... yes i woke up with a little start of a head cold...oh no...i really don't wanna be sick with this thing. My mom and sister were i was around my mom at her worst during her sickness and my coworker is finally well and now...at least one more day of work then two days off to run errands even though i don't feel like it...
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01-31-2008, 01:20 PM	#8
madmonkeygirl Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 764	I'm gonna spend some time away from this board... Kevy i started a new thread but you are so right. It is the person not me. Obviously. I really appreciate everyone being so nice and supportive of me. I did nothing wrong. I know that now. And i will continue to post my beliefs feelings opinions etc. If they have a problem with that too freakin bad.
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01-31-2008, 01:40 PM	#9
madmonkeygirl Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 764	I'm gonna spend some time away from this board... Exactly just because i might disagree with someone or get tired of someone's posts i do NOT go and PM them and make them feel bad. I just skim skip over their post....
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