I'm gonna spend some time away from this board... - Page 4

Kevy Baby · 01-30-2008, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by CoasterMatt

Send in the clowns, too

You and I are already here.

GusGus · 01-30-2008, 10:46 PM

madmonkeygirl · 01-31-2008, 12:13 AM

It's not cuz i can't make the meets...it's from one person who "attacked me via privately". Sorry but i can't defend myself and fight anymore. I've done that all my life and i'm burned out. I just wanted a place to be safe and loved and to be able to post on here up til today i never thought i would have to defend myself always thought this was a fun place..debate and express opinions...

GC if Jon Bon Jovi asked me to stay i would stay.

Cindy you make a good point and it's not cuz of that. Yeah i do feel bad sometimes not being able to make a meet up or swanky but that's life.

I've been told not to post that i can't make this event or that event that it is getting old my excuses so...i won't....

I think i'm getting sick...so i need to go to bed now...achy headache i really hope not i don't want or need to be sick in any way or fashion...

wendybeth · 01-31-2008, 01:34 AM

Well, even if I lived in SoCal, I certainly wouldn't be able to (and wouldn't be expected) to make all the meets, trips and whatnot. Everyone on here has 'a life' and the get-togethers are to be fit in when and if it's feasible. I wish I could see all of you more, but I can't due to the distance. You're closer geographically so you might feel the pressure to join up more, but it's not expected and I'm sure no one wants to make you feel like you have to show at each and every event. I dunno- I think the fact that people want to see you is a good thing, but maybe I'm missing out on something here. I hope you can work this out and stay with us, but in the end it's all up to you. I also hope you feel better- I've been sick for nearly six weeks, and it's getting very old.

Scrooge McSam · 01-31-2008, 07:11 AM

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Originally Posted by scaeagles

There are only two things that would redeem me in your eyes - conversion to a liberal

Nah... I don't like all of them either.

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Originally Posted by scaeagles

or access to my ham.

Yes, Smithfield, that would be a generous offer, were it ever to happen, but Phoenix is too far to travel for ham salad.

Scrooge McSam · 01-31-2008, 07:19 AM

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Originally Posted by NirvanaMan

Crap when did I miss you being out here though? I don't remember that.

July 9, 2006 - The famous Sac Meet

See GD and iSm's discussion upthread.

I don't know what they're talking about.

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Nephythys · 01-31-2008, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by madmonkeygirl

It's not cuz i can't make the meets...it's from one person who "attacked me via privately". Sorry but i can't defend myself and fight anymore. I've done that all my life and i'm burned out. I just wanted a place to be safe and loved and to be able to post on here up til today i never thought i would have to defend myself always thought this was a fun place..debate and express opinions...

Then that idiot deserves to be on ignore (and I don't care who it is-attacks in PM or otherwise are stupid and hurtful)- but leaving the rest of us due to an idiot?

Bogus- take a break but don't let them win!

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I've been told not to post that i can't make this event or that event that it is getting old my excuses so...i won't....

Who the hell on this forum thinks they have the right to tell you what to post or what not to post?

That makes me sick too- in a pissed off way.

Not Afraid · 01-31-2008, 09:36 AM

If the person giving you direction in a PM is a Moderator or an Admin, then you probably need to take a look at what they are saying. If the person is NOT a Moderator or Admin, then you should put the person on ignore and ignore the PM. To take any sort of action based on the comments on ONE person on a board of many is a of an over reaction.

Ponine · 01-31-2008, 10:29 AM

I need to respond to what NA said.
I agree with her completely, BUT I also know exactly where you are coming from. I've been there, and I've blocked them.

It has to be up to you. Will that one person be the one who tells you what you should be doing?

If they are a Mod, fine, give their opinions some thought.
If they are not, stop and consider what they are asking you to do.

Alex · 01-31-2008, 10:32 AM

I don't know who you are so I say this as a complete outsider and without a hint of bias:

Ok.

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01-31-2008, 12:13 AM	#33
madmonkeygirl Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 764	I'm gonna spend some time away from this board... It's not cuz i can't make the meets...it's from one person who "attacked me via privately". Sorry but i can't defend myself and fight anymore. I've done that all my life and i'm burned out. I just wanted a place to be safe and loved and to be able to post on here up til today i never thought i would have to defend myself always thought this was a fun place..debate and express opinions... GC if Jon Bon Jovi asked me to stay i would stay. Cindy you make a good point and it's not cuz of that. Yeah i do feel bad sometimes not being able to make a meet up or swanky but that's life. I've been told not to post that i can't make this event or that event that it is getting old my excuses so...i won't.... I think i'm getting sick...so i need to go to bed now...achy headache i really hope not i don't want or need to be sick in any way or fashion...
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01-31-2008, 01:34 AM	#34
wendybeth Nevermind Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 7,847	Well, even if I lived in SoCal, I certainly wouldn't be able to (and wouldn't be expected) to make all the meets, trips and whatnot. Everyone on here has 'a life' and the get-togethers are to be fit in when and if it's feasible. I wish I could see all of you more, but I can't due to the distance. You're closer geographically so you might feel the pressure to join up more, but it's not expected and I'm sure no one wants to make you feel like you have to show at each and every event. I dunno- I think the fact that people want to see you is a good thing, but maybe I'm missing out on something here. I hope you can work this out and stay with us, but in the end it's all up to you. I also hope you feel better- I've been sick for nearly six weeks, and it's getting very old. __________________
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01-31-2008, 09:36 AM	#38
Not Afraid HI! Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 17,108	If the person giving you direction in a PM is a Moderator or an Admin, then you probably need to take a look at what they are saying. If the person is NOT a Moderator or Admin, then you should put the person on ignore and ignore the PM. To take any sort of action based on the comments on ONE person on a board of many is a of an over reaction.
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01-31-2008, 10:29 AM	#39
Ponine Virgin Ears Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,075	I need to respond to what NA said. I agree with her completely, BUT I also know exactly where you are coming from. I've been there, and I've blocked them. It has to be up to you. Will that one person be the one who tells you what you should be doing? If they are a Mod, fine, give their opinions some thought. If they are not, stop and consider what they are asking you to do. __________________ There's something strange, There's something wrong. I see a change - It's like when love dies.
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01-31-2008, 10:32 AM	#40
Alex . Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 13,354	I don't know who you are so I say this as a complete outsider and without a hint of bias: Ok.
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