*sigh* teenagers

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I'm not looking forward to your situation, but I think you are handling it in a good manner for you and your family. I don't envy you in the slightest! As long as you're setting boundaries and he is following them, it's the best you can do.
Most people wouldn't be honest enough to say they would do it different if it were their daughter. Except my husband, which is why we stopped after one boy. He would have locked a girl in the closet at puberty and not let her out until she was 40!!!