Question for gay men

[JWBear]

Originally Posted by innerSpaceman

It's well-accepted that bread-winning qualities are those that are most attractive to women. The "good looks" are simply the vestiges of what brought bread (or rather, mastadon meat) to the table in days of yore, and the other qualities of intelligence, ambition, wit and crafitness that might signal financial success to the modern gal are far less apparent to the instant appraisal of the eye.

Men want healthy babies, and that's never changed. Hence, it's all visual for men. (ahem, most men).

Most of us don't necessarily want to breed, but I'd say that it is still all visual for gay men as well. We just drool over differnt things than our straight brothers.

[innerSpaceman]

Originally Posted by JWBear

Most of us don't necessarily want to breed, but I'd say that it is still all visual for gay men as well. We just drool over differnt things than our straight brothers.

I find it interesting then, that because we are men, we use the visual as the prime attraction tool ... but because we are gay, we are not using that tool for its intended use.




(of course, plenty of folks would say we're not using that other tool for its intended use either.)