Wedding planning, and other stuff I don't know Thing 1 about...

Disneyphile · 10-13-2009, 12:37 AM

Exactly what SL said:

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Originally Posted by Strangler Lewis

"We really love your portraits, and we were wondering if you did weddings and, if so, how much you'd charge to do ours."

By the way, be prepared for the Crazy Train to roll through now and then. Everybody and their dogs will want a say in your wedding. The biggest piece of advice I ever give at the start of wedding planning is to always remember that it's YOUR day. Some people will get upset, but that's not your concern. (If you ever need to get rid of someone whining on the phone, blame the cat or some other "sudden" thing that you "must take care of immediately".

) Make sure to take care of what you and J want, and it will all be perfect.

The other piece of advice is that realistically you only get two of the three options: cheap, quick, high-quality. Don't expect to get all three - you'll go nuts very quickly.

So, anyway, have fun during one of the most amazing times in your life! The only thing that tops engagement is being married to your true love. Enjoy your reign of bridedom.

3894 · 10-13-2009, 06:26 AM

I love with SL said.

Regarding photos:
You know I'm a great-aunt peering over the top of her spectacles. My gloved hands fold over the top of my cane. I say the bride and groom act as the hosts. Put guests first and foremost! No long period for photos between the end of the wedding and the beginning of the reception! If you want lots of photos, tell the photographer to do candids!

When do we talk about the clothes?

blueerica · 10-13-2009, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by 3894

When do we talk about the clothes?

Hehehe, I'm gettin' there... I'm gettin' there! (I have been secretly starting to think about what to wear...)

Thank you everyone for the advice. I've been asked to "work" weddings, and never really considered what really is the best way to ask these sorts of things.

After thinking it out (and since the plan is to do the ceremony in Vegas), most of the packages come with a photographer, so I won't have him "work" during the wedding. However, I may ask if we could get some portraits, perhaps engagement photos, done separately - assuming the costs, of course.

Deebs · 10-23-2009, 01:10 PM

You're supercool and creative, E. It will be a beautiful wedding, I'm sure. I got married before I had a home computer. No iPod either, of course. When I think of all the time I spent rounding up the music ...!! I actually used the yellow pages to search for a photographer.

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Originally Posted by Disneyphile

Enjoy your reign of bridedom.

Yes, do! It was fun being the bride. I only went to one bridal event, at Gump's in San Francisco. It inspired some delusions of grandeur, though it wasn't a complete waste. I had fun and entered some drawings for free honeymoons and the like. (Who wins those things?) It also gave me some ideas, because I felt like you -- I really didn't know a thing about wedding planning. I remember it seemed that the simpler the gown, the more expensive it was. I wanted to look like Jackie O, but yeah, that didn't happen. I never did find that perfect dress. It proved an impossible task to find it, but at least I didn't end up in a white version Glinda's dress.

What I remember most about my wedding day is that my cheeks were aching from smiling so much.

bewitched · 10-23-2009, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Deebs

You're supercool and creative, E. It will be a beautiful wedding, I'm sure. I got married before I had a home computer. No iPod either, of course. When I think of all the time I spent rounding up the music ...!! I actually used the yellow pages to search for a photographer.

Yes, do! It was fun being the bride. I only went to one bridal event, at Gump's in San Francisco. It inspired some delusions of grandeur, though it wasn't a complete waste. I had fun and entered some drawings for free honeymoons and the like. (Who wins those things?) It also gave me some ideas, because I felt like you -- I really didn't know a thing about wedding planning. I remember it seemed that the simpler the gown, the more expensive it was. I wanted to look like Jackie O, but yeah, that didn't happen. I never did find that perfect dress. It proved an impossible task to find it, but at least I didn't end up in a white version Glinda's dress.

What I remember most about my wedding day is that my cheeks were aching from smiling so much.

It sounds like you had an awesome time and really discovered the fun in being a bride.

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