Are you an akser or a Guesser?

[Alex]

Well, that is an option easily available. She could just do the dishes. But unless there's some reason that it is clearly my responsibility to do them (such as she just cooked the dinner or they're all dirty because of something I made for myself), then at the moment she's asking we've both been equally responsible for them not yet being done. And as already mentioned, no I don't want to do the dishes.