Soooo....

[MouseWife]

Isn't that what the human smugglers are called? Coyotes? Aw, correct me if I am wrong because that is how I've always called them.

Oh, and I live really close to the border....

[Kevy Baby]

Yes; the people who smuggle illegal aliens across the border (at least the Mexico/US border) are called coyotes.

[MickeyLumbo]

after a week of walking an average 10 miles each day, i realized i could not handle the responsibilities of the new role. i asked that my duties be modified to help me manage an entire shift without working myself to exhaustion. the answer was a resounding NO. "it had been explained to me in great detail what the expectations were before i agreed to the role and i must do my duties as expected."

well, this reaction infuriated me. after a heated exchange, i said, "i quit!" and left that sweat shop" forever!:mad:

[Snowflake]

after a week of walking an average 10 miles each day, i realized i could not handle the responsibilities of the new role. i asked that my duties be modified to help me manage an entire shift without working myself to exhaustion. the answer was a resounding NO. "it had been explained to me in great detail what the expectations were before i agreed to the role and i must do my duties as expected."

well, this reaction infuriated me. after i punched my manager in the face, i said, "i quit!" and left that sweat shop" forever!:mad:

WTF?!?!?!

ML, are you serious, they reacted that way, and you did too?

Oh man! If so, I am soooo sorry and you deserve so much better from the mouse

[Kevy Baby]

WTF?!?!?!

ML, are you serious, they reacted that way, and you did too?

Oh man! If so, I am soooo sorry and you deserve so much better from the mouseTake a look at the calendar.

[Ghoulish Delight]

Take a look at the calendar.Watch it mister or I'll ban your ass so fast...

[Alex]

I hate this day so much.

So I'm going to go to work where I won't be consuming any media at all until The Amazing Race.

[Motorboat Cruiser]

Is this where iSm comes in?

[Snowflake]

Take a look at the calendar.

Oh yeah, I see it now (but I admit, it took ML a PM to me to set me straight)
Doh!:blush:

[wendybeth]

Heh heh....I saw Mickey's avatar in another thread and thought for just a split second " oh, ****!". Then I realized what today's date is.


Mickey is a brat.;):p

[Snowflake]

So, working on my podcast for April. With luck, it will post on time for a change!

[Ghoulish Delight]

I hate Ralphs supermarkets. Hate.

[DreadPirateRoberts]

after a week of walking an average 10 miles each day, i realized i could not handle the responsibilities of the new role. i asked that my duties be modified to help me manage an entire shift without working myself to exhaustion. the answer was a resounding NO. "it had been explained to me in great detail what the expectations were before i agreed to the role and i must do my duties as expected."

well, this reaction infuriated me. after a heated exchange, i said, "i quit!" and left that sweat shop" forever!:mad:

I admit it, you got me.

[RStar]

I hate Ralphs supermarkets. Hate.

I'm not sure why you hate Ralphs, but have you been to the Stater Bros on Magnolia and Chapman? It's the worst market I have ever seen.

[Morrigoon]

Never did make it to DLand today :(

OTOH, it's super hot down here, I can only imagine it must've been baking in Anaheim, and I had a monstrous sinus headache (for which my honey was kind enough to get me the meds and a soda so I could deal with it, awww...)

In other new... The Happiest Millionaire just arrived :)

[MickeyLumbo]

glad to know it was all just a dream - that didn't come true!

all is well for licky rumball:D

thanks for all the mojo!

[blueerica]

Bah! Cheap ploy to get more mojo.... I see how it is, Lumbo. I've got my eyes on you... ;)

:p

[Snowflake]

So, Monday morning, Meet the Robinsons soundtrack on the iPod (I like it, okay) and so far no disasters n my desk. Gonna be a good day.

[€uroMeinke]

So it was great closing the park with the Lashpair last night, but I had to call it sick this morning. Nothing like a breakfast of cold meds and coffee to start the day out right.

[Snowflake]

So, just got the word that Kevin Brownlow will be in SF during the film festival (he's being honored with an award, rightly so, say I) and it looks like I will not only get to meet him in person, but we're having lunch. :D

[katiesue]

I hate Ralphs supermarkets. Hate.

Sign me up for the club. I avoid Ralphs whenever possible.

[Ghoulish Delight]

Sign me up for the club. I avoid Ralphs whenever possible.

Sadly, the 3 closest markets to us our all Ralphs. And they all suck in ways that you wouldn't imagine would cross over between stores. But there's something about the way they're run (confirmed by CP's brother who worked at one for a short while) that just sucks. Feh.

[katiesue]

Luckily I can avoid them but I haven't found one yet that has sufficient parking. Which starts me out aggravated. They never have enough checkers/coursey clerks. Generally half the number Vons will have working on a weeekend or during the evening rush. The only time they were sufficiently staffed was during the strike. And honestly the scabs were much more compitent and nicer than the usual workers.

[JWBear]

The Ralphs in the Marina Pacifica Center on PCH is nice... and HUGE. We go there a lot now that we have moved.

[Kevy Baby]

Ralphs is our preferred store. While it is further than the Von's (which is within easy walking distance), it is much larger and better stocked.

I like Albertson's with the self check-out

[Ghoulish Delight]

It hasn't been so much about size and stocking, it's about the employees. At best, they're chatting with their friends when they should be helping customers ("No, for the third time, I want a half pound of roast beef.") and at worst they are talking sh!t with each other about their coworkers within easy earshot of customers. They are unfriendly and unhelpful. And it's been consistent between two different Ralphs I go to regularly. When we mentioned it to CP's brother he said, "Yup, that's what it was like at the one I worked at too," and made a good case that it has a lot to do with the company's policies (or lack their of) on training and how they treat their employees. Once he was there for some time and his coworkers could tell that he wasn't an idiot, all of the long-termers warned him to get the hell out while he still can.

Many Ralph's have self checkout too, but the system is inferior to Albertsons'. It's a little buggy, less intuitive, and requires a lot more intervention from employees (something I would rather avoid at Ralphs. See above), and innevitably at every Ralphs I've been to that has one, it's roped off and shut down a good portion of the time because it doesn't help anyone.

[lashbear]

What's Ralphs ??
What's Albertsons??

...... I KNOW what Vons is... :mad: (ow, my feet)

[Capt Jack]

you folks do realize that most of those are WIC stores and that first-of-the-month is NOT the time to go anywhere near a major grocery outlet, right? that is, not if youre hoping to avoid massive crowds, anyway.

nothing against the low income folks, just anything that brings them out en masse on the same day can make for a frustrating grocery experience, not to mention you can only have your foot run over/ be crashed into so many times by children driving overloaded grocery carts they cant see over before losing some small bit of ones cool.

/end rant

[katiesue]

At my Ralphs it's the surly employees. They are rude and unhelpful. One particular checker who's been there for years literally will NOT bag your groceries but will spend a ton of time YELLING over the pa system for a courtesy clerk to do it for her.

[Prudence]

Today we woke up and looked outside to see...snow.


WTF?!?

I's APRIL. Why is there snow here?

[Kevy Baby]

It hasn't been so much about size and stocking, it's about the employees. At best, they're chatting with their friends when they should be helping customers...I guess we're lucky then. I've never experienced such problems at our Ralph's (but then, Susan does most of the shopping).

...... I KNOW what Vons is... :mad: (ow, my feet)That's your own damed fault: you had many offers to drive you there :p

It's APRIL. Why is there snow here?Umm... cuz it fell from the sky?

[Ponine]

you folks do realize that most of those are WIC stores and that first-of-the-month is NOT the time to go anywhere near a major grocery outlet, right? that is, not if youre hoping to avoid massive crowds, anyway.

/end rant
Whoa horsie.... thats not the way my WIC tickets worked.
The first of the month is merely payday for a great many people. You have a few weeks in which you can use your WIC coupons.

THis is about the employees in said stores not paying attention, and chattin up other employees instead of providing good service.
If he had to tell someone three time he wanted 1/2 lb of roast beef, that had nada to do with customers, and everything to do with the employee.

[mousepod]

Today we woke up and looked outside to see...snow.


WTF?!?

I's APRIL. Why is there snow here?

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v28/Housequake/Discography/parade.jpg

[wendybeth]

Today we woke up and looked outside to see...snow.


WTF?!?

I's APRIL. Why is there snow here?

Same here, Pru.:(

Luckily, I'm OUTTA here tomorrow! Weird day here all around: sunny, then cloudy, then snowy, then sunny and snowy, with lots of blustery wind thrown in for good measure. The locusts should be arriving soon.

Been packing all day- got my travelers checks and cash ready, printing out e-tickets and checking our hotel ressies, stopping frequently to snuggle with our worried pets who know full well what all this hustle, bustle and suitcases means. At least Erckle and grandma will be remaining home, so everyone but Samwise will be happy. The poor little guy looks soooooo sad right now. Just got a call from a friend who is down there with his family now- he is having a great time; this is his first visit and I'm not sure but maybe his first plane trip. (Fear of flying). He said the flight was great, so I'm relieved he didn't have a bad experience.

Can't wait to see you all!

[Bornieo: Fully Loaded]

So, where is the big "Wendybeth" meet thread??????

[wendybeth]

Sort of had a half-assed Easter one going, but with all the comings and goings of various LoT'ers, I figured I'd just sort of wing this trip. I spoke with NA today and some plans are in the works, it's just a matter of coordinating schedules. I think most everyone has my cell, but if anyone doesn't and would like it just PM me or get it from Lisa. We'll be staying at the Sheraton Anaheim, from 4/3-4/9.

:D

[MickeyLumbo]

sweet! gimme some wendybeth meat.

[Prudence]

Sound the trumpets - I finally have sorted through most of the phots from our December trip. (http://s30.photobucket.com/albums/c321/ethelberga/DL%20Dec%2006/) (USH photos still to come.) Look for some familiar faces. Includes 1 video.

[€uroMeinke]

Great Pics! - I particularly like the Tea Cup sequence - I need to do those again sometime soon.

[Not Afraid]

For me, it's all about the Carousel sequence. Fun stuff!

[Morrigoon]

So I finally gave into peer pressure and went to the Urgent Care. It's not broken, he didn't even need to x-ray it.

But it's even uglier today than it was Saturday! The swelling is going down and the color is rising.

[RStar]

Today we woke up and looked outside to see...snow.


WTF?!?

I's APRIL. Why is there snow here?Where? Damn global warming! Where's Al Gore when you need him?

you folks do realize that most of those are WIC stores and that first-of-the-month is NOT the time to go anywhere near a major grocery outlet, right? that is, not if youre hoping to avoid massive crowds, anyway.Oh, I wondered why the crowds were thicker at the first of the month!

So I finally gave into peer pressure and went to the Urgent Care. It's not broken, he didn't even need to x-ray it.

But it's even uglier today than it was Saturday! The swelling is going down and the color is rising.What happened?? I hope everything is okay! :eek:

[Not Afraid]

Morrigoon, I'm glad you went to the Dr's even if it isn't broken. It was not looking pretty.

[Mousey Girl]

I refuse to shop at Albertsons for the same reasons given for Ralph's.
When I was pregnant, just walking in the doors was enough to make me gag. All I could smell was spoiled fish and stale dog food.
When Nick was a baby I had a "courtesy clerk" actually take the cart (with Nick in it) and push it towards the lane next to me, out of my reach and line of sight. I was pissed. It took 3 years before I ever went back
Any time I did stop in one, due to location, they employees were too busy talking to each other about each other that I was totally ignored.
Recently (right before Superbowl) I went to a brand new store and ended up with an incompetent checker. When I got home I found out that I paid for and received someone elses rotting fruit.

It just ticks me off because Albertsons is the only store that carries Diet A&W Cream Soda.



Boy came home yesterday with 2 chicks. Not girls, but actual chicks. I am not a happy camper. I did move them in from the garage. I promised Nick that I would not intentionally cause the birds harm. Our gas dryer has a leaky hose. It is not enough to be an issue in an empty garage, but I don't want to take a chance with his new "pets."

[wendybeth]

Sound the trumpets - I finally have sorted through most of the phots from our December trip. (http://s30.photobucket.com/albums/c321/ethelberga/DL%20Dec%2006/) (USH photos still to come.) Look for some familiar faces. Includes 1 video.
You and your hubby are such a cute couple! (Tori thought so too. She also thinks he might be a bit silly, based on some of his expressions in the pics). Great pictures, and they really helped me get over being tired tonight and getting excited about going there tomorrow!:cheers:

[Mousey Girl]

Crap. It is official. I am turning into a softy. I realized that the Kitchen gets chilly at night. I just shut the slider (I like to leave it open at night) and covered the box containing the chicks. I am now listening to crazy rats destroying their cage and the chirping of tiny birds.

[Snowflake]

I cannot sleep.....

[lashbear]

See You TODAY, Wendybeth !!!!!!! Cove bar (or West Hollywood ;) ) here we come !! :D

[MickeyLumbo]

See You TODAY, Wendybeth !!!!!!! Cove bar (or West Hollywood ;) ) here we come !! :D


don't forget me. i will be there from 7am on. (i so love it in the morning!)

[wendybeth]

Yaaaay! The day is finally here! Now I need to get off my ass and get ready!

:D:cheers:

[Snowflake]

Yaaaay! The day is finally here! Now I need to get off my ass and get ready!

:D:cheers:

Yay! Have a G-R-E-A-T time! Like you won't? :cheers:

Safe flight to you and the troops!

[blueerica]

Hmm... I actually really like my Ralphs.. They're attentive to the point where they'll measure out deli meats exactly, and I have to say "Nah, that's good." The cakes come out all nicely decorated. The only time I really had trouble was early, early, early morning in the bakery, though within a few minutes I saw them walking out with fresh baked goods, which made it all okay with me. Also, I find that my Ralph's has a lot of workers in areas like the deli, bakery, veggies, flowers, butcher... but no one seems to be walking around the aisles. My biggest complaint is for times when I'm looking for something I don't know how to categorize. I think once I was looking for marshmallow topping (or maybe it was maraschino cherries?) and didn't see it with the marshmallows, nor ice cream toppings. It took about 15+ minutes to track someone down that wasn't busy and/or would know the aisles well, and it was the only thing I went to the store for.

[Snowflake]

So why is it that now that I am post 40, if I lose a couple of hours of sleep in the middle of the night, I feel like I've been dragged through a knothole?

[MouseWife]

So why is it that now that I am post 40, if I lose a couple of hours of sleep in the middle of the night, I feel like I've been dragged through a knothole?

I don't know. But, I used to stay up late with the kids exercising and get up at a decent hour and feel great.

Now, I am soooo tired and if I go to bed during Leno I have a hard time waking up at 7. Used to be no problem.

I am also past 40.

WTF???

[wendybeth]

Yay! Have a G-R-E-A-T time! Like you won't? :cheers:

Safe flight to you and the troops!

Thank you, Snow!:cheers:

[Not Afraid]

See you soon, WB!

[JWBear]

I don't know. But, I used to stay up late with the kids exercising and get up at a decent hour and feel great.

Now, I am soooo tired and if I go to bed during Leno I have a hard time waking up at 7. Used to be no problem.

I am also past 40.

WTF???

Don't it suck? Welcome to the world of aging! :cheers:

[lashbear]

(i so love it in the morning!)
I know, but what about work ? :evil:

[Alex]

I've always been fortunate that my natural sleep requirements seem to be about 6 1/2 hours and as long as I can get a full night's sleep once a week I can go on 5 1/2 without much impairment. I hope that doesn't change as I get older (and so far it hasn't). People who need to sleep 8 or more hours worry me. But it is a three week per year of extra living I get. I can still pull all-nighters just as easily as I used to (did so weekend before last), though consecutive ones are probably out of the question. I also don't get hangovers and never wake up groggy. Except for being fat, ugly, and a prick I'm the ideal human being.

[Bornieo: Fully Loaded]

Have a safe journey WB!!! I'll be at the park on Sat. Might see ya!

[wendybeth]

Great, Borneio- it will be fun to see you again! Well, we're off. Fair warning!
:D

[SacTown Chronic]

Oh come on now, Alex, I'm sure nobody considers you ugly.

[MouseWife]

Don't it suck? Welcome to the world of aging! :cheers:

I think I've been here a couple of years but I have been ignoring the nagging aches and wrinkles....

And, as far as the necessary hours of sleep; we were going over that with the kids. Hubster takes the least at about 6 {not good for me since I sleep with him and} I really do best with 8. The kids? Oh, 10!! But, the Boy has been having a growth spurt over his spring break.

Sleep is a good healing time.

[Alex]

Oh come on now, Alex, I'm sure nobody considers you ugly.

I wasn't fishing for reassurances. But I think it is objectively true I am on the "below mean" side of the Societal Attractiveness Chart. I have good features and generally am one of those people where individually fine features (very good eyes and nose, particularly) combine to a whole less than the sum of the parts.

Not, not everybody considers me ugly but neither would it be true that nobody does.

But I'm fine with that. It is what it is.

[Ghoulish Delight]

I wasn't fishing for reassurances. But I think it is objectively true I am on the "below mean" side of the Societal Attractiveness Chart.
I think Sac was pulling' the old Vaudeville implied, "...but you are fat and a prick" gag. (Or the old "Who's scruffy looking?" gag for the Star Wars geeks).

[Stan4dSteph]

I also don't get hangovers and never wake up groggy. Except for being fat, ugly, and a prick I'm the ideal human being.Was microwaving your eyeballs like a wicked hangover?

[Prudence]

My lemon tree is actually growing a lemon!

[Snowflake]

My lemon tree is actually growing a lemon!

So life is literally handing you a lemon, gonna make lemonade? :)

[Prudence]

So life is literally handing you a lemon, gonna make lemonade? :)

Well, it'll have to get longer than a centimeter first. I'm not sure what I'm going to make first, assuming I actually get a "finished" lemon off the tree. The blossoms are really fragrant, that's for sure.

[Capt Jack]

nice thing bout lemons is the birds wont touch em.

and personally, instead of lemonade...get a nice piece of halibut or other nice white fish and marinade it up, squeeze that lil bugger on there, couple minutes on a broiler and have at it. (with the requisite side of rice pilaf of course)
;)

dang, just made myself hungry again.

[Prudence]

Considering that up here a successful lemon tree must be kept indoors, keeping the birds away isn't an issue.

And now for something completely different: Peeps for Passover. (http://www.flickr.com/photos/17025280@N00/sets/72157600038845249/detail/)

[Ghoulish Delight]

In my family there is only one young kid at the moment. She's about 4 and is just now old enough to start being able to understand and participate in the seder. She read the 4 questions for the first time this year, it was great. She even had 4 question finger puppets (one side, a regular chair, the other side, a recliner. One side a happy little herb, the other a frowning bitter herb. Etc.). But the best part was when we got to the plagues...and mom pulls out her plague toys! I didn't get a good look at all of them, but I saw a cow lying dead on the table, a small vile of red liquid, a snake, a frog. We asked, "What the heck do you do for 'slaying of the first born'?". The answer? A pacifier.

I'm not sure if I was horrified or incredibly amused.

[MouseWife]

I am impressed with the families that keep true to their religions. :snap:

[mousepod]

Ten Plague Finger Puppets!
http://www.studio36.com/images/PRODUCT/large/lgpic6722.jpg

[Ghoulish Delight]

Yup. those look like the same set as the 4 questions puppets.

[BarTopDancer]

My mind thinks it's 21 and my body feels like it's 40. They need to meet in the middle, or it needs to be illegal to have this much fun or something.

I think we need those puppets to make our seder more interesting.

[katiesue]

Now that I'm 40 I can't stay up late like I used to. I also can't see anything small without my glasses, which kinda sucks.

[CoasterMatt]

I'm getting older, but I keep having more energy...

[MouseWife]

Now that I'm 40 I can't stay up late like I used to. I also can't see anything small without my glasses, which kinda sucks.


Yes, I realized this also. I always check the dates on my coins and found myself not doing it quite so quickly as before....sucks big time.

[Bornieo: Fully Loaded]

I can't wait to get into my 40's. That when my sex-drive is supposed to kick in...

[Kevy Baby]

I can't wait to get into my 40's. That when my sex-drive is supposed to kick in...Bad news - you peaked at 18 and have been going downhill ever since.

[€uroMeinke]

I don't know if age is a factor, but this year I seem to be getting sicker than most - So far, I've had a cold of flu in every month this year. If these keeps up the pharmacist is going to think I'm running a Meth lab.

[MickeyLumbo]

for over 40, my mind is fairly sharp, with some minor short term memory loss. but i often have body aches (growing pains?) and tonight, i have a date! ... with my foot massager, and my mind is fairly sharp for over 40.

:D

[Plumenom]

TO the Lashbears, Nephy and Wendyful:

do not be alarmed tomorrow morning at unusual activity in the sky above (or below) you may hear loud "hovering" from your Guest rooms.

and unrelated, security has been significantly increased, mostly "stealth" on-stage, very evident back.

[€uroMeinke]

Hmmm - The Black Helicopters again huh?

[MouseWife]

for over 40, my mind is fairly sharp, with some minor short term memory loss. but i often have body aches (growing pains?) and tonight, i have a date! ... with my foot massager, and my mind is fairly sharp for over 40.

:D

LOL

Hey, I feel pretty good most of the time but my mind hasn't ever been so sharp. I have always just taken it that I don't want to know everything and that I don't want to hear everything everyone says.

If it is important, it'll come back around.

But, now, if it is funny, well, I perk my ears up but good. :D

[Plumenom]

Hmmm - The Black Helicopters again huh?


perhaps... but if the sun is not up yet, they could very well be pink.

also, do not expect any westside fun in the am... i'm just saying...

oh, and someday you may see your very own bones when exposed to moonlight.

[Strangler Lewis]

for over 40, my mind is fairly sharp, with some minor short term memory loss. but i often have body aches (growing pains?) and tonight, i have a date! ... with my foot massager, and my mind is fairly sharp for over 40.

:D

I hate it when I can't remember if I took my gingko.

[Bornieo: Fully Loaded]

Bad news - you peaked at 18 and have been going downhill ever since.

Sez you!!! :cool:

[RStar]

perhaps... but if the sun is not up yet, they could very well be pink.

also, do not expect any westside fun in the am... i'm just saying...

oh, and someday you may see your very own bones when exposed to moonlight.
Sounds cool! I know it could be bad, but I can't wait!

[RStar]

I can't wait to get into my 40's. That when my sex-drive is supposed to kick in...
Yup, bad news dude. It the girls who peak at 40, us guys came and went (no pun intended) at 18.

Now that I'm almost 48, I may not have the same energy I had at 18, but I can still go at it as I was still 18. :D :D :D


Did I say that out loud? :blush:

[DreadPirateRoberts]

I don't know if age is a factor, but this year I seem to be getting sicker than most - So far, I've had a cold of flu in every month this year. If these keeps up the pharmacist is going to think I'm running a Meth lab.

Do you think this correlates to your increased use of public transportation?

[RStar]

Do you think this correlates to your increased use of public transportation?
That's an interesting point! A good case for hand sanitizer too!

[€uroMeinke]

Do you think this correlates to your increased use of public transportation?

If anything - it's the opposite, my job and health have been preventing me from taking it as much as I used to. Perhaps I need to make more of an effort to get back to it and rebuild my immunities.

[Ghoulish Delight]

Hell, forgot my laptop at home today. Not a big deal as I keep all the files I need on the network and the desktop I used to use before I got the laptop is still sitting here ready to go. But I have a boatload of meetings today and certainly could use the laptop for note taking. Sigh, looks like I'll be trekking home on lunch break.

[Snowflake]

Considering that up here a successful lemon tree must be kept indoors, keeping the birds away isn't an issue.

And now for something completely different: Peeps for Passover. (http://www.flickr.com/photos/17025280@N00/sets/72157600038845249/detail/)

Oh now that is great! Visible MOJO for you, Pru!

[Snowflake]

I don't know if age is a factor, but this year I seem to be getting sicker than most - So far, I've had a cold of flu in every month this year. If these keeps up the pharmacist is going to think I'm running a Meth lab.

Well, now that you've cleaned out the garage, it is my understanding that they can be profitable providing you don't blow yourself up.

[Not Afraid]

I just dropped a bomb on my boss and I think I'm going to turn off my phone. :evil:

[CoasterMatt]

I've ridden public transportation to/from work for the last 5 years, and I hardly EVER have a cold.

I've gotten sick more often from eating at Tommy's.

[Snowflake]

I just dropped a bomb on my boss and I think I'm going to turn off my phone. :evil:

:evil: and that bomb would be what? (I think I know, I think, think, think)

[Alex]

After almost two years of near isolation working from home, I caught about five mild colds in the first three months after returning to work. Fortunately nothing serious enough to put me down but annoying since I so rarely get them.

[Not Afraid]

It's a financial bomb - the best sort to freak him out. Plus, he's a control freak and he's NOT going to like the fact that we have to put a $1000 deposit down to rent some equipment (not to mention that MY photographer already had said equipment). I could go on a looooooong rant right about now.

[blueerica]

So.... The great state of Utah is known for many things... Mormons, extra fancy liquor license to go into a real bar, lush mountains covered with winter snow and.... HORNETS.

I've had a weird-a$$ed day. Woke up, kinda tired, watched TV, set about on some homework, etc, decided that the rice from yesterday wouldn't be good for making fried rice tonight and started up a new pot. Being that there is no rice cooker here (the reason for the horrible (IMO) rice from last night), I took extra care in measurements, temperature, etc, and walked off to the computer to do a number of things, including going to this very website.

It seemed as though a few minutes had gone by, when I noticed something smelling funny. Apparently when surfing the LoT - time flies. I walk to the kitchen and to my horror, the pot has smoke coming up, the water is all gone, and it's burnt, burnt, burnt. I turn on the fan, and go to open the kitchen window. After raising the blinds, I realize that the window isn't "normal" to me. I search for the clips to pull up by running my hands around the edges. Luckily, I look down as I'm going across the bottom because there was a hornet!!

The smoke detector goes off, and I scream! I leave the hornet to fan the detector, open the front door (which is nearby) and just stand there contemplating how I would get rid of Mr. Hornet. I go to Google, type in Hornet, and what should be on the first page? The University of Utah, talking about the horrible hornet situation Utah faces annually. So, this is going to be a big problem, eh?

Pissed and distracted, I drive to Target, looking for some kind of spray. I should go for the big stuff, right? This is going to be a big problem? Apparently, this must be the season - over half the pest control section was filled with wasp and hornet specific artillery. I grab the biggest, blackest, meanest-looking can I can find (realizing that I will choke and gag after using such a menacing device) and head to the counter. I pass the small electrics, and what do you know... the rice cooker is on SALE! Grabbed one of those and realize I could use some TUMS. Grab a bottle of that and off to the counter I go!

I popped a couple of TUMS, and nearly chickened out on the spray. What if it didn't work right away? I don't want pissed off pests, no, no! Once my stomach settled, I blasted away and watched the hornet die a cruel death. I felt bad for the hornet and sick from the can of raid - but it was a choice, either me or the hornet, and the hornet had to go.

Now, time to take a shower. I smell like smoke and insecticide. I'll deal with the rice cooker later.

[DreadPirateRoberts]

So.... The great state of Utah is known for many things... Mormons, extra fancy liquor license to go into a real bar, lush mountains covered with winter snow and.... HORNETS.


Glad to hear you are ok. Any idea how the hornet got in? Are there any nests nearby?

[Morrigoon]

Well, I couldn't wait for them to call me, so I called the mechanic. Transmission's shot. Still waiting on an estimate for a rebuild.

Can't help wondering if I should bother...

[blueerica]

Glad to hear you are ok. Any idea how the hornet got in? Are there any nests nearby?

I'm going to guess that there are probably a ton nearby. I checked the quick areas I tend to pass and didn't see anything, though it doesn't mean there isn't one hidden away somewhere. We'll just have to see how it goes. EEEK! :eek:

[lashbear]

Now, time to take a shower. I smell like smoke and insecticide. I'll deal with the rice cooker later.

If this was Iron Chef, you'd have trapped the Hornet in the rice cooker and had "Hornet-Flavoured Rice".

Or made Ice-cream out of it. Anyone for a "Hornet Cornet" ?

[DreadPirateRoberts]

Well, I couldn't wait for them to call me, so I called the mechanic. Transmission's shot. Still waiting on an estimate for a rebuild.

Can't help wondering if I should bother...

I guess it depends on the repair cost, and comparing that to your other options (something else new/used?)

[Snowflake]

If this was Iron Chef, you'd have trapped the Hornet in the rice cooker and had "Hornet-Flavoured Rice".

Or made Ice-cream out of it. Anyone for a "Hornet Cornet" ?

Okay, Lash, I LOVE, LUFF, LURVE, LOVe you... my sides hurt, how much more spectacularly fun you will be in person, I can only imagine.

[MouseWife]

I don't know a heck of a whole lot about hornets but I sort of recollect a bit....

I don't what type of dwelling you reside in but you might want to walk about the perimeter and look up in the eaves {I think that is what it is called where the roof overhangs? I dunno...go with me here} and see if you see anything that looks like a clump of mud.

Or, do hornets make their nests in the ground? Really something to look in to and do a check now and again.

Reminds me to go take a walk around my house. I worry so much about our kids and our doggie being attacked by a swarm of bees!

Well, either way, check on google what you should look for. Be on top of it, I always say.

Well, I always say it but I don't always do it...

Good luck!

Morri~so sorry about the car problems. I sympathize completely.

[Morrigoon]

I may be in the market for a new/newer vehicle. Suggestions are much appreciated!

Here are my needs:
1)4-door with a reasonably comfortable back seat. Suitable for running clients around to look at property for hours at a time.
2)Must look decently professional (eg: no Bugs, Mini Coopers, pickups, etc.)
3)Reliability
4)Under $20K, the lower the better

What have you guys heard about the following cars?

1) Honda CRV LX (probably the most expensive car I'm considering, but tremendously reliable)
2) Scion xA (I know nothing about this car, but it's supposed to be roomy and easy to get in/out of)
3) Toyota Corolla

In the past I've also considered Saturns, but there are various concerns about reliability that, coupled with much higher insurance costs, have pretty much eliminated them from consideration.

[Bornieo: Fully Loaded]

Ever had one of those days when you just wanna punch the next person who says anything to you?

Maybe I need more Antioxidents...

[Prudence]

I own a 2003 Corolla, and my brother owns one a few years older than that. Mine's been very reliable. Okay, so the factory radio bit the dust. But other than that, no problems that weren't of our own making.

The back seat is one of the reasons we chose the Corolla. At the time, I wanted a smallish car that could still reasonably fit adults in the back seat. (The Sentra is right out in this regard). I've ridden in the back seat of both Corollas and it was fine. Not spacious like an SUV, but not unbearably cramped.

[Kevy Baby]

3) Toyota CorollaWhile I am a large fan of the Toyota products, I would say that the Corolla would not be your best choice in terms of what you need to show real estate. I am not familiar with the other two cars, but in light of your current career path, I would strongly suggest you keep the size factor in mind when making a decision.

My dos centavos on the subject is to look for a used car with more room. I don't think you need to go with a Lincoln Town Car, but definitely something larger than a Corolla. Part of what you want to do is portray a successful image - people generally want to work with successful people!

[Kevy Baby]

Ever had one of those days when you just wanna punch the next person who says anything to you?I'm afraid to respond to this post :eek:

[DreadPirateRoberts]

I may be in the market for a new/newer vehicle. Suggestions are much appreciated!

Here are my needs:
1)4-door with a reasonably comfortable back seat. Suitable for running clients around to look at property for hours at a time.
2)Must look decently professional (eg: no Bugs, Mini Coopers, pickups, etc.)
3)Reliability
4)Under $20K, the lower the better

What have you guys heard about the following cars?

1) Honda CRV LX (probably the most expensive car I'm considering, but tremendously reliable)
2) Scion xA (I know nothing about this car, but it's supposed to be roomy and easy to get in/out of)
3) Toyota Corolla

In the past I've also considered Saturns, but there are various concerns about reliability that, coupled with much higher insurance costs, have pretty much eliminated them from consideration.

This is probably a bad suggestion, but what if you fixed the jeep, used it for a commuter car, and borrowed a nicer car on the weekends when you had to project a successful real estate image? (just until you were in a position to save up for a nicer car)

[CoasterMatt]

Ever had one of those days when you just wanna punch the next person who says anything to you?


I call those "weekdays" :D

[blueerica]

I don't know a heck of a whole lot about hornets but I sort of recollect a bit....

I don't what type of dwelling you reside in but you might want to walk about the perimeter and look up in the eaves {I think that is what it is called where the roof overhangs? I dunno...go with me here} and see if you see anything that looks like a clump of mud.

Or, do hornets make their nests in the ground? Really something to look in to and do a check now and again.



Luckily, for the time being, I'm just visiting. From what I can tell, they can settle just about anywhere, though usually under eaves and in nooks. They can even be in hallowed walls (which concerns me, though I doubt it is the case - we shall see).

[MickeyLumbo]

I would strongly suggest you keep the size factor in mind when making a decision.



oh, ok. i thought straight teeth and a good job was priority. but i hear what your sayin'.

[Capt Jack]

I'm afraid to respond to this post :eek:

dig. :snap: Ive written at least 3 different ones....just...decided agin it

its prolly better that way :D
(I come out looking really bad in that story)

[MickeyLumbo]

Guess who I got to ride with on the shuttle this morning... tee hee


and, i got my paycheck today showing a very happy pay raise. sure hope this good karma doesn't stop.

[MickeyLumbo]

Hmmm - The Black Helicopters again huh?


today, blue and white.:cool:

[Morrigoon]

They can even be in hallowed walls (which concerns me, though I doubt it is the case - we shall see).

Yeah, I hear those hornets are the stuff of legend ;)

[Prudence]

My trademark prof gives out little trinkets for guessing his trivia questions, which are based on the cases he's presenting. So, guess who got the postcard associated with knowing who the "Page" was in "Page v. Something Weird Video"?

[RStar]

My trademark prof gives out little trinkets for guessing his trivia questions, which are based on the cases he's presenting. So, guess who got the postcard associated with knowing who the "Page" was in "Page v. Something Weird Video"?
Let me guess..... You?

Do I get a trinket now?

Huh?

Do I?

Do I?

:D

[Morrigoon]

Guess who I got to ride with on the shuttle this morning... tee hee


Honestly? No idea.

[LSPoorEeyorick]

Um, I know that there are cultural divides. I know that.

But I have to say that frankly, I'm disturbed by the "select caste" function on http://www.tamilmatrimony.com/

Link courtesy of gmail's spammy ads.

[Kevy Baby]

Depression sucks. Currently fighting a nasty bout of it and I don't much care for it.

I damn well better be over by the time we hit our cruise.

[Morrigoon]

Chocolate, my friend. Best mood enhancer ever, and it works in small doses :)

Take two Ghiradelli Squares and call me in the morning.

[Stan4dSteph]

I've got a line on a job in CA, and it's an internal transfer! Keep your fingers crossed. It sounds cool. :)

[Alex]

Good for you, hope it works out. What part of California?

[RStar]

I've got a line on a job in CA, and it's an internal transfer! Keep your fingers crossed. It sounds cool. :)

Yes, very cool! I hope it works out for you. And it would be a plus to be back in warm sunny Southern California! I hope you're talking about around here that is.....

[Snowflake]

I've got a line on a job in CA, and it's an internal transfer! Keep your fingers crossed. It sounds cool. :)

WooHoo! :snap: :cheers:

[Stan4dSteph]

Good for you, hope it works out. What part of California?LA area.

[Snowflake]

Guess who I got to ride with on the shuttle this morning... tee hee


and, i got my paycheck today showing a very happy pay raise. sure hope this good karma doesn't stop.

Wonderful! :snap: :cheers:

[Snowflake]

I may be in the market for a new/newer vehicle. Suggestions are much appreciated!

Here are my needs:
1)4-door with a reasonably comfortable back seat. Suitable for running clients around to look at property for hours at a time.
2)Must look decently professional (eg: no Bugs, Mini Coopers, pickups, etc.)
3)Reliability
4)Under $20K, the lower the better

In the past I've also considered Saturns, but there are various concerns about reliability that, coupled with much higher insurance costs, have pretty much eliminated them from consideration.

Well, I do not own one, but a friend of mine bought a really nice Hyundai, comfy, nice looking, reliable and about 14k. Hers was a 2 door, but I expect they do make a 4 door. Might be an option? I always found riding in the car comfy and it seemed to drive well.

[Capt Jack]

I'm disturbed by the "select caste" function on http://www.tamilmatrimony.com/



Ive tried a couple times to say something to this...
I got nuthin', so instead here are some random smilies

:( :rolleyes: :eek: :gnome: :decap:

thats...different.

[Snowflake]

Ive tried a couple times to say something to this...
I got nuthin', so instead here are some random smilies

:( :rolleyes: :eek: :gnome: :decap:

thats...different.

Lie if you must, always select brahmin!

[Strangler Lewis]

Ive tried a couple times to say something to this...
I got nuthin', so instead here are some random smilies

:( :rolleyes: :eek: :gnome: :decap:

thats...different.

I've got plenty, but it's all in rather poor taste.

[Ponine]

Depression sucks. Currently fighting a nasty bout of it and I don't much care for it.

I damn well better be over by the time we hit our cruise.

I'm right there with you my friend. And the chocolate isnt helping me.

Lots and lots of caffine here, and the glimmer of hope that I get to meet the Lash's next week.

[blueerica]

Depression sucks. Currently fighting a nasty bout of it and I don't much care for it.

I damn well better be over by the time we hit our cruise.

While I know there's little outside that can bring anyone out of something like depression, I have found that (like Morrigoon) small amounts of chocolate help, but also vitamins, especially B-complex. Doesn't solve the issue, but at least there's a sort of natural motivation behind me.

[Snowflake]

Depression sucks. Currently fighting a nasty bout of it and I don't much care for it.

I damn well better be over by the time we hit our cruise.

I hope so too! Maybe a dose of vegemite will help?
Maybe not, get happy mojo sent your way Kevy!

[BarTopDancer]

I may be in the market for a new/newer vehicle. Suggestions are much appreciated!

Here are my needs:
1)4-door with a reasonably comfortable back seat. Suitable for running clients around to look at property for hours at a time.
2)Must look decently professional (eg: no Bugs, Mini Coopers, pickups, etc.)
3)Reliability
4)Under $20K, the lower the better

What have you guys heard about the following cars?

1) Honda CRV LX (probably the most expensive car I'm considering, but tremendously reliable)
2) Scion xA (I know nothing about this car, but it's supposed to be roomy and easy to get in/out of)
3) Toyota Corolla

In the past I've also considered Saturns, but there are various concerns about reliability that, coupled with much higher insurance costs, have pretty much eliminated them from consideration.

Mazda3 or the Mazda3 5-door. Love it. Lot's of back seat room. You can get the lower end one with power windows/locks for under $20k.

[Snowflake]

So, I just got off the phone with my old boss in VA. You know, the Versace Ho? Well, he has outdone himself. He loves MontBlanc pens, only uses the fountain pens, he has a gorgeous signature. We've not been caught up, he's just bought a new pen. Limited Edition, for the market in Japan, 77 pens worldwide, inspired by Miyamoto Musashi, it's cool looking. It's also 14,000€. (14,000 Euro = 18,687.2 US Dollar)

THUD

[Capt Jack]

Im sorry....did you just describe an $18K pen??????????

Miyamoto Musashi (http://www.samurai-archives.com/musashi.html) was a swordsman. wtf kind of PEN is it?

[LSPoorEeyorick]

I can understand the desire for luxury. But an $18K pen I cannot understand. Particularly since I seem to lose all of mine.

[€uroMeinke]

So last night, I got an offer on the job I wanted and it was a good one. So this morning I called the recruiter to cancel my interview with the other Company's General Counsel, sent off an email to the hiring supervisor of the other job I was bidding for offering my regrets, and came into my seldom visited office to start packing up my personal things.

The whole things still makes me laugh and I'm very happy it turned out this way.

[DreadPirateRoberts]

I can understand the desire for luxury. But an $18K pen I cannot understand. Particularly since I seem to lose all of mine.

I bet you'd take good care of this one. :)

[Snowflake]

Im sorry....did you just describe an $18K pen??????????

Miyamoto Musashi (http://www.samurai-archives.com/musashi.html) was a swordsman. wtf kind of PEN is it?

http://www.geocities.com/~rudyfan/pen.jpg

Here's the pen, this is the description he emailed me:


Objectives
To support the Japanese retail business with a special created Limited Edition

Positioning
Paying tribute to Miyamoto Musashi as a world known samurai, as well as honouring his written famous book “The book of five rings”
Limited to 77 pieces

Materials / Design /Product Features

Fountain Pen, based on size 146
750 solid yellow gold cap and barrel covered with precious china lacquer referring to the pattern of a samurai sword-shaft
Engraved kanji of the 5 elements on the barrel
Five rings on the cap set with 190 diamonds approx. 0,86 ct.
Clip inspired by a samurai sword
Musashi samurai symbol on the bottom part of the cone
Special designed 18 kt. Gold nib
Montblanc logo in Mother of Pearl


Distribution
Internal Boutique only (Japan)

Packaging
Special high polished black lacquered Wood Box with a special designed engraving plate on the top

I gotta say, I agree with LSPE on this one, I thought his 2k pens were excessive (and I won't go into the watches....yikes) But, he is a collector on the high side and he does take care of his toys, and, finally, it's his money, not mine!

I'd take that 18 grand, pay off my bills and take the kind of vacation iSm had in Paris.....(and add Italy)

[Snowflake]

So last night, I got an offer on the job I wanted and it was a good one. So this morning I called the recruiter to cancel my interview with the other Company's General Counsel, sent off an email to the hiring supervisor of the other job I was bidding for offering my regrets, and came into my seldom visited office to start packing up my personal things.

The whole things still makes me laugh and I'm very happy it turned out this way.

Well, congratulations does not say it enough. :cheers: and onward and upward!

[Snowflake]

This should probably go in the Misc movie musings, but if you like Alfred Molina (I Do) he's interviewed on NPR's All Things Considered tonight.

[DreadPirateRoberts]

So last night, I got an offer on the job I wanted and it was a good one. So this morning I called the recruiter to cancel my interview with the other Company's General Counsel, sent off an email to the hiring supervisor of the other job I was bidding for offering my regrets, and came into my seldom visited office to start packing up my personal things.

The whole things still makes me laugh and I'm very happy it turned out this way.

Congratulations! Is this with your current company, or a new one?

[Capt Jack]

http://www.geocities.com/~rudyfan/pen.jpg

Here's the pen, this is the description he emailed me:

blah blah blah
pretentious blah blah
looks like blah blah
gold & diamond blah
exclusive blah

got it.

well, no, actually I DONT get it, but...ok. :rolleyes:

[Kevy Baby]

Chocolate, my friend. Best mood enhancer ever, and it works in small doses :)

Take two Ghiradelli Squares and call me in the morning.Well, Ghirardelli is my fav (the chocolate squares with the caramel filling are my weakness). However, I am back on a diet, so no chocolate for me right now. And the depression started before the diet.

I'm right there with you my friend. And the chocolate isnt helping me.

Lots and lots of caffine here, and the glimmer of hope that I get to meet the Lash's next week.

While I know there's little outside that can bring anyone out of something like depression, I have found that (like Morrigoon) small amounts of chocolate help, but also vitamins, especially B-complex. Doesn't solve the issue, but at least there's a sort of natural motivation behind me.I do vitamin load!

I hope so too! Maybe a dose of vegemite will help?
Maybe not, get happy mojo sent your way Kevy!Thanks to all for your well wishes. I have been combating this for years (before I got help, it was completely debilitating for me) and I am used to this. It still sucks, but at least I know what it is and that I have virtually no control over it.

I have found one of the best things is to talk about. But as anyone with depression will attest, that is often very challenging.

One thing that would really help would be exercise, but that is one thing I can never get myself to do.

[mousepod]

So last night, I got an offer on the job I wanted and it was a good one. So this morning I called the recruiter to cancel my interview with the other Company's General Counsel, sent off an email to the hiring supervisor of the other job I was bidding for offering my regrets, and came into my seldom visited office to start packing up my personal things.

The whole things still makes me laugh and I'm very happy it turned out this way.

CONGRATS!

Can't wait to hear the details.

[MouseWife]

One thing that would really help would be exercise, but that is one thing I can never get myself to do.

Dah, that is what I was going to recommend. I was going to because I feel like crap and I know that if I would get off my keister and go outside for a walk I would feel a lot better. Even if just to say 'Ok, I got off my keister and went for walk'.

I just don't feel like it. And darn it, the weather is perfect. Gray and overcast. Nice and chilly.

Chris, yes, do tell more about your job! I know there were a few offers on the table...

Ponine~I'm having a lot of caffeine and the glimmer of hope I get to see YOU soon!

[Morrigoon]

I've got a line on a job in CA, and it's an internal transfer! Keep your fingers crossed. It sounds cool. :)

:snap: :snap: :snap: :snap: :snap: :cheers:

[MickeyLumbo]

Depression sucks. Currently fighting a nasty bout of it and I don't much care for it.

I damn well better be over by the time we hit our cruise.

thinking of you, bud.

please call for any reason, at any time. xoxo

[Babette]

Congrats €!

Hugs to Kevy!

[JWBear]

Congratulations Chris!

[Prudence]

I don't suppose anyone here knows any federal judges in CA?

[Strangler Lewis]

So last night, I got an offer on the job I wanted and it was a good one. So this morning I called the recruiter to cancel my interview with the other Company's General Counsel, sent off an email to the hiring supervisor of the other job I was bidding for offering my regrets, and came into my seldom visited office to start packing up my personal things.

The whole things still makes me laugh and I'm very happy it turned out this way.

I'm confused. Are you taking the job within Edison or going to a new company?

Either way, congratulations, mazel tov and f*** yeah!

[€uroMeinke]

I'm confused. Are you taking the job within Edison or going to a new company?

Either way, congratulations, mazel tov and f*** yeah!

Same Company, new position - sort of - I've been supporting it for months, but now moving officially on to their payroll.

[Strangler Lewis]

Same Company, new position - sort of - I've been supporting it for months, but now moving officially on to their payroll.

Excellent. Same location(s)?

[Strangler Lewis]

I don't suppose anyone here knows any federal judges in CA?

Why do you want to know?

[€uroMeinke]

Excellent. Same location(s)?

Almost, my "office" will be about 8 miles down the road from my old office, but there's space also reserved for me down at San Onofre where I'll be spending some time as well.

[Cadaverous Pallor]

The whole things still makes me laugh and I'm very happy it turned out this way.All together now:

"It's about fvcking time!"

Congrats congrats :snap: congrats congrats!

[DreadPirateRoberts]

Almost, my "office" will be about 8 miles down the road from my old office, but there's space also reserved for me down at San Onofre where I'll be spending some time as well.

Excellent incentive to take up surfing at lunch!

[Morrigoon]

I'm in a Toyota dealership looking at an '05 matrix, any thoughts?

(quickly, because I think I'm getting it.. speak now or forever hold your peace!)

[Prudence]

Why do you want to know?

why does any law student ask such questions? Eventually I'll graduate and I need a job.

[RStar]

why does any law student ask such questions? Eventually I'll graduate and I need a job.

Or, one could be in a real big mess.

Either way, no I don't. Sorry.

Congrats €uroMeinke! I'm so glad to here this! Yeah!! :snap:

[Morrigoon]

Apparently, I bought a car :)

Holy sh*t, what have I done?

[DreadPirateRoberts]

Apparently, I bought a car :)

Holy sh*t, what have I done?

Congratulations! Did you trade in the jeep, as-is?

[RStar]

Holy sh*t, what have I done?You bought a car.

Is there an echo in here?

So what did you get??

I hope you enjoy it!!

[Snowflake]

You bought a car.

Is there an echo in here?

So what did you get??

I hope you enjoy it!!

Echo continues, what did you get?

[LSPoorEeyorick]

For some reason, I imagine it was an '05 Totota Matrix.

I'm in a Toyota dealership looking at an '05 matrix...

[MouseWife]

For some reason, I imagine it was an '05 Totota Matrix.

I have to say, LSPoorEeyorick, now that I've met you, I read your post and hear your voice. :)

You are a cool chickie! :cool:

[Snowflake]

For some reason, I imagine it was an '05 Totota Matrix.

Party pooper! ;)

[Cadaverous Pallor]

I have to say, LSPoorEeyorick, now that I've met you, I read your post and hear your voice. :)

You are a cool chickie! :cool:Same for me and you, MouseWife. I know we've met in the past, but I swear, this time it will stick! :)

[Bornieo: Fully Loaded]

Apparently, I bought a car :)

Holy sh*t, what have I done?

Yeah, you didn't notice the guy in the robe holding a scythe when you signed the papers? :evil:

[Ponine]

Apparently, I bought a car :)

Holy sh*t, what have I done?

And in three months you may still be saying the same thing.
I know I am. ;)

[MouseWife]

Same for me and you, MouseWife. I know we've met in the past, but I swear, this time it will stick! :)

Thanks! I think so, too. I know it is corny but it really tripped me out to see you guys after so long.

Matching names to faces, that was fun, too. When I totally didn't recognize anything about someone, I had to ask 'Mice Chat?' and yep, that was the deal.

New cars. I do regret not keeping one of the old ones for a kick around car or to teach the son with {he wants to drive my car? Is he whippy or what???}

I also hope life stays good and we don't regret the payments. AND when will the damn insurance go down???? {wait, young male driver, it will only go up...}

which reminds me...gotta pay some bills....

Pics! I'd love to see them of your new wheels, Morri!!

[Not Afraid]

Mousewife has made a few appearances over the years - but still not enough for me to instantly recognize her when she's incognito in hat and glasses. ;)

[Capt Jack]

And in three months you may still be saying the same thing.
I know I am. ;)

oh shush. you know that old car of yours wouldnt have lasted another Disney trip. :D

[MouseWife]

Mousewife has made a few appearances over the years - but still not enough for me to instantly recognize her when she's incognito in hat and glasses. ;)

*hee hee* My mom has a hard time recognizing me in that get up. :D

I actually had my hair freshly washed and down but it did get warm and sunny.

I was going to say, how do all of you guys do it, very few of the gang {if any, actually} were wearing hats? Are you just used to the sun? Maybe I need to get out more.

{when I exercise, I do it before the sun gets up into the sky or in my garage...I do my walks on the beach at sunset...*ack* I am a mole rat!!}

Oh, and when Not Afraid says your name, it sounds so normal. I love it. :snap:

[Ponine]

Oh, and when Not Afraid says your name, it sounds so normal. I love it. :snap:
Totally. Hang out with her long enough and you too can call people by board name without blinking.
That catch? Yelling things like Cadaverous loudly in public.

But you know what? My blue tooth will not recognize Cadaverous or Disneyphile if I try to voice dial them.

[Prudence]

So, Monday we woke up to snow. Today? It's probably close to 80. This is absolutely nuts.

But, I got some gardening done - planted a pea or bean sprout (I lost track of which were which), basil seed, and bachelor button and marigold seed, prepared the area where I'm going to plant my sweet pea extravaganza, and started soaking the sweet pea seeds. The hyacinths smell absolutely divine - I'm definitely planting more next year. The tulips and daffs are about to bloom, the grape hyacinths are all in bloom, and I have one whole dwarf sweet pea sprout. Unfortunately, something came in and dug up the planter where I'd planted onion starts and carrot seeds. Grrr!

But, the lemon tree is really going to town! It's so much fun to watch!

[BarTopDancer]

...I'm being told to neglect my work so I can work on fixing this POS laptop for the owners son. Now, he already has 2 of the same model that I fixed up for him late last year. He threw a hissyfit to daddy who told my boss to tell me to drop everything and fix it. They are probably paying more in my salary to get this thing up and running then they would spend on a brand new machine.

[Plumenom]

sooo, was just sittin' there, eating my mahi mahi, and in walks Tony B.!!!

and does anybody know what was up with all of the fighter jets flying over main street all day? very creepy!

[Gn2Dlnd]

Mahi in the morning? What, did they reopen the Tahitian Terrace?

(I always remember the menu cards would freak people out because they would parenthetically describe Mahi Mahi as Dolphin Fish!)

[Cadaverous Pallor]

and does anybody know what was up with all of the fighter jets flying over main street all day? very creepy!Yeah, that was weird. We only saw one I think, at 4pm (Small World was going off and it was hard to pay attention with the very loud jet up there). I thought someone like you might know why!

[Gn2Dlnd]

I thought someone like you might know why!

Like who?

/Plumenom disappears in a puff of smoke/

[Cadaverous Pallor]

Like who?

/Plumenom disappears in a puff of smoke/Darn magical Plumenom! Always coming and going in a wisp of pixie dust...

[Mousey Girl]

Nick and I went to CALM today (California Living Museum). We has a nice stroll through the grounds. The animals I enjoy are all noturnal, so they were all snoozing. I did get to see a Bald Eagle up close, dang that is one big bird!!!

We also got to see a couple of very large hawks (almost as big as the eagle). They seemed to be a nesting couple. I just wish I had thought to get some pics of the birds of prey area.

After we got done we went to my in-laws to color eggs. One of his sister's asked if David would make it to dinner tomorrow. They all got real quiet when I said I hadn't talked to or seen him since Wednesday.

[MouseWife]

After we got done we went to my in-laws to color eggs. One of his sister's asked if David would make it to dinner tomorrow. They all got real quiet when I said I hadn't talked to or seen him since Wednesday.

I am so glad to read of all of the things you are doing with your son. It will make this mess his dads' created a little less painful. He has you. :snap:

{{{hugs}}} for you, too.

[Plumenom]

Mahi in the morning? What, did they reopen the Tahitian Terrace?

(I always remember the menu cards would freak people out because they would parenthetically describe Mahi Mahi as Dolphin Fish!)


omg, please tell me i didn't eat flipper.

but, i'm surprised you were more interested in FISH than T. Baxter.

and it was 12:30:D

[Plumenom]

Darn magical Plumenom! Always coming and going in a wisp of pixie dust...

actually, i never did find out what was up... there were about 6 flyovers throughout the day... and i was even wearing an earpiece... not a peep about them

but, alot of higher than normal "safety" the last few days. well hidden on-stage - out in the open, not so hidden back stage.

but friday was the only day of the flyovers. freaky friday?

the homeland protecting us from the lash invasion?

would geraldo know?

'nuff said, peace OUT:snap:

[Alex]

So every once in a while someone will ask me if I'm absolutely certain I don't want kids and my stock response is "I better be since I can't." But sometimes I do wonder. I've never yet had the urge but I wonder if it will hit me at some point ("better not, since I can't").

So anyway, I'm on the shuttle home from work yesterday and there is this woman with a kid sitting next to me. The kid isn't really misbehaving, just being a bit squirmy and whimpery.

Then I realize I am thinking to myself "you know, now that I think about it, Children of Men doesn't seem so dystopian." In such unsheltered moments we see into our souls and I was reassured.

[Mousey Girl]

Alex, if you had asked me 11 years ago if I wanted a kid, I would have said no. I never saw myself being a mom. Heck, I was in denial for the first 3 months of my pregnancy.

Now I can't imagine my life without him. For a long time after he was born I kept getting asked if I wanted more. My standard answer is, "Nope. There are no garuntees that another baby would be as good as he was." I just can't imagine starting over with diapers and the mess of a baby, not to mention the cost.

[Kevy Baby]

Besides, kids are good tax write-offs

[Alex]

Somehow I'm guessing they cost more than they save in taxes.

Gambling losses are also a good write-off but I still try to avoid having those.

[MouseWife]

I can totally understand feelings not wanting to be changed if you either can't or have taken care of the decision of not having kids.

Really, it is all in the parents. That whimpering kid, you don't know why he was. {Oh, I should add I haven't seen/read 'Children of Men', I've seen the preview but that's it}.

Some parents think their kids are the best shiet there is only to ruin them. Never discipline them, give them everything they want.

Other parents think their kids are such a pain, such a burden to their lives that they don't appreciate them.

It is hard to find that medium, where you appreciate them, love them, yet try and make them ready to hit the road someday.

And of course, some kids, who grow up to be people just like you and me, are just off. You can't know. And, I don't know 100% if this isn't also due to birthorder/parenting. Also, lack of parenting skills.

BUT It is all a personal decision. We almost had that taken from us and miraculously we have 3 kids. I know people who also decided not to have kids and really, it is your own business.

Just don't blame the kids. Behind every rotten kid is a parent. Listen to them for a minute and you'll see how they became that way.

All that aside, it is not an easy job. That is probably why some parents don't discipline their kids. It shuts them up but then it trains the kid to be like that always. I told my kids {and nephew whom I had for a year} 'The more you ask isn't going to change my answer. No is no.'

{and no, my kids aren't perfect but I would never trade them for anything or any other kid...}

[Strangler Lewis]

I just can't imagine starting over with diapers and the mess of a baby, not to mention the cost.

That's certainly how we felt after two. Three or more, though, is just ostentatious.

As I think I've said before, having been an only child, I didn't miss having siblings--until my parents got old.

[Alex]

I'm not complaining about the kid or questioning anybody who has them.

I was just amused by myself and the thought that I found going through my head.

[Kevy Baby]

That's certainly how we felt after two. Three or more, though, is just ostentatious.My parents really wanted a son. After two girls, they said to themselves, "OK, we'll have just one more. We'll stop at three, regardless."

And my next sister was born, to which they said, "OK; we'll try just one more time, and we will absolutely stop at four."

You guessed it: my fourth older sister was born.

So they let a couple of years lapse, and say, "Alright, just ONE more try for a boy, and if it is a girl, we'll absolutely stop there."

They finally got what they wanted and I ended up with four older sisters. Though Susan often thinks I act like a girl, so maybe my parents didn't really get what they wanted.

[BarTopDancer]

As I think I've said before, having been an only child, I didn't miss having siblings--until my parents got old.

That's what I am going through right now. Thankfully I have been blessed with an amazing "family" of friends and I know I will never be "alone". I do miss having someone to reminisce with about things that we did as kids - though on some level I have a few people I can do that with, since I have known one since I was 3 and one that I have known since the 3rd grade.

I wanted kids up until a few years ago. Right now I can't imagine having them and I don't think I'd be a good parent right now. Maybe someday. In the far future.

[MouseWife]

I'm not complaining about the kid or questioning anybody who has them.

I was just amused by myself and the thought that I found going through my head.


Yeah, I get it. Don't think I've had those thoughts? I know I've told my kids when they've acted up 'Aw come on now kids, you are scaring that lady out of having kids'. Or {under my breath} 'I bet that lady remembers to take her pill today'.

This reminds me of my single nephew {my age} telling my husband as a motorcycle screamed across the highway behind us 'Yeah, don't you ever think of just hopping on one of those and leaving this all behind?' which pissed me the hell off, my nephew telling my husband that??? But I cooly responded 'Don't we all'.

Ya know, this is one of the first really stress free Easters we are having. It does have to do with the kids being bigger. A token egg hunt, color a bit of eggs just for fun, and, a bbq that they are inviting their friends over for.

[Mousey Girl]

Well... Forgive me, I need to vent, and cry and rage.

All this baby talk... I just found out that David is having a baby. Due in the next monnth or 2. I had no idea. I just got home from his parents, who found out when Dawn sent them a baby shower invitation. I am beyond hurt at this point. Trying to formulate wha tall I need to do tomorrow to get the ball rolling as far as laywer, bank account (which is still open, with money in it). I feel like such a stupid idiotic fool. I am in total shock. How can this be happening to me? to Nick????? David's parents could not have been nicer to me, supportive, caring. They too are in shock. His dad is pissed beyond belief. I have never seen him that angry at anyone, let alone his son.

David got his wish. He has taken over Jimmy's life. too bad it is at the expense of his son's love. Nick is upset. He said they had told him something, but he didn't fully understand it all.

I'm gonna be sik.

[Not Afraid]

UGH! Vent, cry and rage all you want because, he's one giant asshat and you don't deserve this.

[MouseWife]

Mousey Girl~

I agree with NA. You don't deserve this.

Go through what you need to and do what you need to, you have every right.

I am so sorry that he turned out to be such a disappointment in you and your sons' lives.

[Snowflake]

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}} MG.
You take care, and you vent all you need!

[Mousey Girl]

Thank you. Still weeping, but the anger has set in. My sister tells me I am going through the grief process.

Nickolas and I cleaned out the motorhome tonight. I got all of my stuff out of it so that he can take the POS without my pots, pans, dishes, blankets and towels. I also took the dvd player and toaster (I bought them, I can take them). I am sure Dawn will have fun restocking it.

Tomorrow morning I will be calling a locksmith, going to the bank and buying a Club (for my car) and a padlock for the back gate. I will also be calling a lawyer that my mom knows. She said that she and Daddy will pay for my legal costs. I will also be canceling his Speedpass (for gas!no wonder it has been so high, he has been paying for her gas too) and suspending his cell phone (it is on my account).

[Bornieo: Fully Loaded]

Hey MG - SOrry to hear about this. Makes me wonder if the Human race will ever survive because of a-holes like this. People are just down-right selfish - no doubt. Best of luck - lots o' good vibes to you.

[Prudence]

I've started this post a few times, but there just aren't words enough in the English language to adequately convey the utter suckitude of your situation, MG.

Get a good lawyer. Do not scrimp on that front. You're a great mom and a wonderful person and there is a special toasty place in hades for you-know-who. Both of them.

[Morrigoon]

Yeah, you didn't notice the guy in the robe holding a scythe when you signed the papers? :evil:
He told me his name was Bill!

[Mousey Girl]

My mom just said something that makes me cringe. At some point tomorrow or this week, I am going to have to talk to David, and tell him he can start getting his stuff. I will be looking into a restraining order, so that he can't legally enter without my being here. When he does come over, most likely Dawn will be with him. I really don't want to see either of them, but especially not her! She pretended to be my friend. Looking back, the last contact I had with her was right before she must have gotten pregnant. Luckily I never said anything to her that I didn't want to get back to him.

6 months before Jimmy killed himself he asked that (more like forbade) David not be in his house unless he was home. Was something going on way back then?

Wednesday night he brought up CPS, so as this whole thing progresses, I am sure he is going to try to prove me unfit to get Nickolas. I am fsr from being the worst housekeeper, but compared to Dawn I am pretty bad.

Nickolas and I are cleaning the house, the living room is dusted and picked up and I am starting on our bathroom. Tomorrow we will attack his room with a vengance.

I really don't see how he can get full custody, since he has "abandonded" his son, and if I am so awful then he should have take him long ago.

I am trying hard not to be petty, or think that he will be petty, but I know who is pulling his strings and filling his head with lies.

Ok, time to go put away my GOOD jewerly and prepare for the worst.

Tomorrow is going to suck.

[Morrigoon]

Okay, but you're right... for the next couple years or however long it takes to finish the legal stuff, you need to stay really on your toes and not give him anything to use against you.

I would also suggest you be present while they pick up his stuff, painful though it may be, if you're nervous enough to be thinking about stowing jewelry, then you should stick around and watch him.

I would also take anything you are worried about over to someone else's house.

[Mousey Girl]

My parents are coming over tomorrow. My dad wants to make sure he gets things that he gave me, things that he wants Nick to have and not David. My main cncern is my car, it is in both of our names.

I will be asking about a restaining order to helplegally keep him from coming in the house when I'm not home. The crap in the garage is mostly his and not stuff I would want or need.

I don't want her anywhere near me. I don't want her to ba able to accuse me of threatening her. Luckily, I know what sort of tactics she uses and can do my best to avoid them. I am thinking about moving his clothes and things into the motorhome, that way I can limit the time he spends in the house. I already starting tossing his clothes into a box.

I am terrified about what is going to happen. I can't lose Nickolas. I just can't let him be taken from me.

I don't want to keep his stuff just to get even with what he has done. I want to be the better person, but some how I don't see him behaving the same way. When did he plan on telling me? After the kid was born? He told our neighbor (last night at the races) that he thought I knew, that Nickolas had told me. Nick thought the whole thing was a joke, he is 10 years old, he still thinks that people have to be married to have babies. David didn't have the balls to tell me, he wanted his son to do it.

My mom is pissed that he showed up at Christmas, knwing then that she was pregnant. I would so totally laugh if the baby isn't his. She cheated on Jimmy, so I don't know why David thinks he is so special.

*sigh*

I am going to go clean some more.

[MouseWife]

The car, is it you and him or you or him?

Your son sounds sweet, I wonder when they realize you don't have to be married to have kids? I think it just becomes something they know.

Don't worry too much, don't give him that. You have so much on your side.

It sounds like even his family would back you?

I am so sorry you are going through this.

[Mousey Girl]

The car is both, with his name first.

slept for about an hour. I have started dumping his clothes in plastic bags and in a few hours those are going in the motorhome.

I woke up thinking that I had dreamed this whole thing, but the bed was still empty and things were as they were.

[MickeyLumbo]

there is NO doubt this really sucks!

when he returns to get his things, feel free to call the local sheriff or PD to stand by and keep the peace, and maybe have a friend or your mom there for support.

try to find a safe place for Nick to be (Grandma's, neighbor's etc) during that visit so he doesn't have to hear or see the enevitable bickering.

hang in there.

[DreadPirateRoberts]

:( I'm sorry.

[katiesue]

OH MG I'm so sorry. Deifnately get a lawyer. And they won't take Nick away from you. It's really hard to do trust me.

I had the same thing with the car, in both our names. Since the loan wasn't paid off yet I had to leave him on it and on my insurance until it was paid off. The only other way is to refinance it which wasn't feasable. If it's paid off then as a part of the divorce the court will decide who gets it and you'll just do DMV paperwork to get the other person's name off.

Defiantely get with the lawer before you do anything. They'll help you figure out what you can and can't do. That way you'll be covered later. And in California you have to go to mandatory mediation in a child custody issues before you can go before a judge (at least that's how it was explained to me). I was able to use this to my advantage and get things settled without the cost of having to take a lawyer to court.

Hang in there, it will get better just not for while. Oh and try to keep Nick out of it as much as you can, that is the absolute hardest part.

[JWBear]

<<<HUGS>>>

[cirquelover]

I'm so sorry. Hang in there for you and your son, it will get better. You always know you can come here to vent, cry or just talk.

[Morrigoon]

OMG, he told your child to tell you he was cheating??? Okay, I really don't think you need to worry about losing custody. Be sure and bring that up in court. A 10-year old should never be involved at that level.

[BarTopDancer]

/hugs. I am so sorry MG.

Please try not to worry about custody. He is just trying to hurt you more. Your soon to be ex abandoned his family for another. That isn't going to be looked upon highly in court, no matter how clean her house is.

I also seem to recall something about the verbiage on a title or bank account. If it says MouseyGirl and Asshat it is harder to deal with then saying MouseyGirl or Asshat. The or makes it easier to take one person's name off of it.

Something you also may want to consider is preparing a formal, or semi-formal child-care plan to show them where N will be staying while you are at work. I could see Asshat trying to say that "she" will be staying at home so N should be able to stay there. Ya, not really a healthy environment for N to be in. Best interest of the child, not best interest of the morons ruining a family.

[katiesue]

If any titles/accounts say and not or you have to have both people sign to close or make any changes to the accounts. No matter which name is listed first.

You also can't de-list him from your life insurance without his permission either. And if the phone bill, power etc are in his name. He has to call them to have it switched to yours. Huge pain in the bahooty.

[Morrigoon]

Depends on how the life insurance is set up. If he's listed as a beneficiary, but not as an owner, no problem to change it.

In fact, this is a good idea for everybody: check on your life insurance, and make sure your beneficiary info is up to date. Make sure you have designated secondary beneficiaries in case something ever happens to your primary beneficiary (or you die concurrently with the primary beneficiary).

[Snowflake]

So, I feel like I've been dragged headfirst through a knothole in a pine fence. Felt that way when I got out of bed, on the train and here at my desk. Looking forward to heading home to flop on something and remain in a prone position for the duration of the evening. ugh.

[Prudence]

Um, I'm pretty sure that link was the message he was responding to?

[Kevy Baby]

I must have messed up. Sorry. Someone can delete my post.No, I think it should be left up there so you can suffer the consequences
:evil:

[LSPoorEeyorick]

Oh, MG. I have no words. I'm so sorry to hear about this turn of events-- but I hope you know we all have faith in you, and are here for you whenever you need to talk about all of this.

[blueerica]

So... Salt Lake City Airport is nice, until you have to sit there for 9+ hours because you missed your flight by a few minutes.

... There's no place like home... There's no place like home.

[mousepod]

Oh crap... Erica's going to get kicked off The Amazing Race...

[Not Afraid]

These are a few pics from my scary Easter weekend event. I organized a "photo op with the Easter Bunny" for my company at the annual Haute Dog Easter parade. I hired someone to wear a bunny suit all day, then hired a photographer, made floral arrangements, suckered staff into working and art directed the entire tacky booth.

This is just one of the 200 pics taken that day.

http://web.mac.com/lisacone/iWeb/Site/Easter%20and%20Flowers_files/IMG_2403.jpg

(This is my own photo, not one of the professional ones.)

The entire thing is a marketing ploy to get people to go to our web site. We will be posting all 200 pictures on our site for people to view in the next day or so. I'll be sure to post a link so everyone can amuse themselves. I know I'll be laughing.

[CoasterMatt]

OMG - That would scar me for life!

[Not Afraid]

You said you wanted to see more?:
http://web.mac.com/lisacone/iWeb/Site/Easter%20and%20Flowers_files/IMG_2402.jpg

http://web.mac.com/lisacone/iWeb/Site/Easter%20and%20Flowers_files/IMG_2396.jpg

OK, I know. Uncle.

How about a 6 week old Chi puppy that is smaller than my left breast?

http://web.mac.com/lisacone/iWeb/Site/Easter%20and%20Flowers_files/IMG_2404.jpg

[€uroMeinke]

If David Lynch directed dog shows....

[MouseWife]

Oh such darling pictures!

Those are someones babies, you know. I can feel it. :)

LOL So, is your left breast what you use when measuring the pups? What do you use to measure kitties?

Inywho....spoke quite briefly with Senor Lash today. I know he is un Oso {a bear} but he sounded quite gruff, even for him. Then he explained he had a bit of a cold and was resting with Nyquil. I heard Greg in the background, he sounded a bit more peppy.

They do have plans but I think they are taking it easy today and probably will hit the town tomorrow with a vengance. Or at least a nice roar.

I am going to wait and see what they come up with....

[Sub la Goon]

Wait...

Is that Starbucks?
http://web.mac.com/lisacone/iWeb/Site/Easter%20and%20Flowers_files/IMG_2404.jpg

[Sub la Goon]

Coffee makes even the most Satanic Easter Bunny Photo Shoots bearable.

[Snowflake]

How about a 6 week old Chi puppy that is smaller than my left breast?

http://web.mac.com/lisacone/iWeb/Site/Easter%20and%20Flowers_files/IMG_2404.jpg

Aw, adorable, the puppy, not your breast (which I am sure is adorable, too)

[Not Afraid]

I promised more and here are more (with a vengence). (http://www.alphapetcare.com/easter/easter_files/home.html)

[Capt Jack]

oh the dane shots are great! you could almost see the fear in the bunnies eyes.

http://www.alphapetcare.com/easter/easter_files/home_files/LMI_5302.jpg

:p

[Prudence]

There was some weird power outage here and now I don't have email access. I can access the intarwebs, obviously, but not my email. Everyone else in my office can access their email just fine. I have nothing to do. And I keep singing to myself "Everybody's Got Nice Stuff But Me" but no one here gets it.

[Bornieo: Fully Loaded]

oh the dane shots are great! you could almost see the fear in the bunnies eyes.

http://www.alphapetcare.com/easter/easter_files/home_files/LMI_5302.jpg

:p

What's with the crotch grabbing bunny? That's kinda disturbing...

[Ghoulish Delight]

What's with the crotch grabbing bunny? That's kinda disturbing...
If I were stuck in a chair with limited visibility a mobility, being accosted by a 150 lbs. animal, I'd be protecting my groin too.

[DreadPirateRoberts]

If I were stuck in a chair with limited visibility a mobility, being accosted by a 150 lbs. animal, I'd be protecting my groin too.

Or he really likes Great Danes.

[Snowflake]

I think the time has come to start the great job hunt, once again.